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Jul 11, 2005 21:38

I feel frustrated and a tad bit sick...I have caught my mom doing things she claims she is no longer doing. i am unsure, should i talk to her? talk to my dad? let it go? this uncertainty better not be the death of me.

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Hmmm.... toplflite July 12 2005, 01:44:48 UTC
Could you elaborate on what she was doing? Cuz it pretty much depends on what it is.

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Re: Hmmm.... sacredwound July 12 2005, 20:56:31 UTC
well, she is going into nc17 chat rooms and talking to men. She knows that my dad considers it cheating. Though I enjoy talking to strangers online and can see the excitement of it, I can't imagine wanting to trade in 32 years of a marriage in for some guy in a sex chat room. Not just 32 years of marriage, my dad has put up with a lot from her. Sorry you asked? ;)

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Re: Hmmm.... toplflite July 12 2005, 22:24:30 UTC
No, I'm not sorry I asked. Its a valid argument.

Ummm...you've confronted her on it? Does she try meeting them offline sometimes? Or does she do it for cyber sex?

The reason I ask is because cyber, though it does rank the same as cheating to your dad, is a hell of alot less harmless than actually wanting to meet some random dude in-person for sex. But still, its the principle of the thing, right? I think, though it really is a private matter between you parents, her being confronted might wake her up to the reality of the situation. I'm thinking she doesn't see how real it hits at home, outside of her cyber fantasy.

Usually, things aren't such a good idea after you've cum. lol Know what I mean. When people are horny, they get brave and do things that aren't such a good idea. But then they realize that after the orgasmic euphoria passes through.

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Re: Hmmm.... sacredwound July 13 2005, 00:40:48 UTC
well...to make a long story short, she has been confronted in the past. she sorta went off the deep end in october having cyber and phone sex with numerous men up to 10-12 times a day. she ran up the cell phone bill to $800 in the meanwhile and pretended like nothing was wrong. eventually went to a psych ward for a month where she was diagnosed as bipolar and got on meds. mind you she has been through a few years of counseling as well for being abused by her father. she doesnt seem to want the help though, and she hasnt really acted remorseful of all she put my dad through. so, yeah, she was confronted before and promised to stay away from those places. and she hasn't kept her promise. hope that clears things up a bit! thanks for your time :)

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