The pre-30 Weed-Out

[sagesephiroth]

Some people may already know what the
title means. For those who don't... as one
ages and experiences life, it seems your
teens-20's are all about finding out who
you are. As most get closer to 30, once
the self has been established, the rest
comes - others.

Comments

[rageofwinter]

It's always good to set some time to decide who is really worth having in your life, otherwise those people will just drag you down in the end, and you of all people certainly don't want that. If you're going to exert any kind of energy, it should be toward something you want.

And I would have to say that YOU are the most important part of my life as well, and that also means that everything in my life also revolves around you, mein liebe. Everything and everyone, aside from family, comes second. But of course you are included in that whole "family" bit... especially if we ever...

One DOES need to acknolwedge the good someone has done for them, although you might have to question why... But you also have to acknowledge when someone has changed and just isn't right for you anymore. I think it will make your life and everyone around you much happier.

And I agree... you really do need trust in a friendship, and especially relationship. Everything else comes second.
"I am now reminded that friendship is about acceptance; not

[circlingfreedom]

I've learnt a lot about what friendships mean to me over the years. I stopped giving out as much when I realised that when I needed something... quite a few people were not willing to give me even a quarter of what I'd given out.

I consider you a friend, albiet we're not close. But we were in life and death situations together... that creates a bond! I had a chat with Uth yesterday. He's married and has a baby girl on the way... Dah's getting married next month. I'm glad I'm still in touch with you guys although we don't connect on a regular basis anymore.