Comments | saisongbird: Really, really happy.

saisongbird

Really, really happy.

Dec 28, 2004 19:53

For the first time in a long time, I finally feel wanted and appreciated and loved. And it's a wonderful, wonderful feeling to have. I have the three best girlfriends in the world, who have driven to Ithaca for me, who are always there when I need someone to talk to. They shop with me and they just hang with me and I realized last night that I ( Read more... )

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aaronjg682 December 29 2004, 01:17:50 UTC

Is it wrong to want revenge....maybe. Is it understandable...most definitely. Personally, I don't condone revenge against anyone, but it's sometimes necessary to alleviate the final pressures and stresses of the situation. Just don't get so far over your head that you get yourself in more trouble than you started with.

To be completely honest, I'd say walk away from it. In time you'll forget about it, that person will be forgotten, and in the end you'll end up better off as a person for persevering through the difficulty this whole unfortunate situation caused. If anyone's gonna come out on the otherside unscathed, it's you. I have faith.

saisongbird December 29 2004, 03:20:13 UTC

Thanks. I appreciate that.

jadedinkslinger December 29 2004, 11:43:35 UTC

Don't break any laws in your quest for revenge ... and yeah revenge feels good, for a while, but after a couple of years it won't matter whether you got revenge or not, you know?

If you have to ask if it's wrong.... danivigil December 30 2004, 05:16:44 UTC

...it probably is. Just a general guideline. And I would call this a completely different situation. The sole purpose of your actions would be to harm someone. Actions that are meant solely to harm someone for your twisted glee are evil acts. Hear that? You would not be getting even, you would be getting evil. It is things like this that start you down the slippery slope of self-absorption and corruption. Knowledge is power. Using this power to hurt someone else is wrong, period. I'm not trying to tell you that you're a bad person. I just don't want you to become someone you yourself would despise from outside the situation ( ... )

Re: If you have to ask if it's wrong.... saisongbird December 30 2004, 17:34:49 UTC

I know. I know. And I appreciate a comment from someone who is closer to the situation. And you know that I would never do anything - I don't have the nerve. It's just having these strange feelings of wanting to do something about it that I've never had before, and I just needed a way to express it. This whole semester really messed with my head, and I guess it's left me a bit more cynical that I would like to admit. It's really screwed with my sense of trust.

It's nice to know you still read my journal. I miss you. Cell # is still the same - call sometime.