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Nov 9 2014 "Boys like singing. It's sexy."
With Pat, I had to detach from things like children and marriage.
Nov 12 2014 He asked the daughter, and the daughter looked down when she answered No. She had to go home with her mom. She looked like she was about to cry ( Read more... )
With Pat, I had to detach from things like children and marriage.
Nov 12 2014 He asked the daughter, and the daughter looked down when she answered No. She had to go home with her mom. She looked like she was about to cry ( Read more... )
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Eerie. I've been thinking about my terrible boundary issues and gaslighting too. I think the two intermingle in the sense that if we don't have great boundaries it leaves too much room for abusers to infiltrate. You say this in your own words here. I don't know.
You don't want to be a psychologist anymore?
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Yeah, I am back on to psych now. Intent on law for a while. Psych classes always hit too close to home. Now that I'm dealing with my shit, I'm not so invested. What are you doing? I take classes right now, but I'm a transient in NC :/
Yeah my boundaries are fucked to hell. Like, I say ANYTHING to strangers. Half of them are turned off, the other half take the opportunity to talk to someone with no boundaries, cause they can say ANYTHING, etc. I've only met a few abusers who really used this to their advantage. Pat, the guy I just left, is one. Some have been friends though :/ I'm super-hermit now, filter the majority out and keep to myself. It works all right :)
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