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[sammysamo]

Let's say that I liked this guy a lot. I liked him enough to have sex with him. Then he screwed me over and showed what a pyscho douche bag he was. So I make this new guy friend who I don't like in a boyfriend way, but just as a friend. He's fun and we get along really well. And let's just say that The Douche Bag and The New Friend become friends

Comments

[archanglrobriel]

Should it bother you? I don't know, but it seems like it does.
I think I'd likely be annoyed and a bit hurt if one of my friends continued to want to hang out with and be friends with someone who'd done me wrong. I'd understand and I'd realize (as you have) that I don't own either of them, and I'd recognize that my feelings on the issue are probably irrational - but I'd still want them to stop and grind my teeth over it when nobody was lookin'.

[sammysamo]

I'm a little less bothered by the whole thing today, but mostly because I'm in a better mood. haha. We'll see. I sent a text to my friend to say that it was bothering me and he didn't reply, so I don't know how he feels about it.

[myujikku_ich]

try to think of it more macroscopically.

E.G. As a parent I think you can only give your children the tools to make good decisions and hope that they do. There are exceptions where advice makes sense.

I suppose that if you've already explained your 'romantic past', so to speak, with this guy ...if this other guy is a good friend he'll make the right choices. Simply keeping him as a 'friend' on myspace is pretty trivial, if you ask me. Not something to get over worked about.

If he makes choices that hurt you then I guess you'll know he's not a friend worth keeping.

[soulardig]

Myspace is the new curtained dance floor.

It doesn't matter what either of them do. It matters what you do.

[im_jesssss]

Some people have to experience certain things on their own. But it sucks when friends don't listen. My best friend is like that.