my neck hurts

[saraciraolo]

i slept badly in my hotel last night. my entire right side is in intense pain, i cannot look to the right or tilt my head all the way back. i have what i think is a zit there, but now i am getting paranoid and thinking a spider bit me and paralyzed me. i know, i am nuts

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lol

[imetmadonna]

welcome to the hurt-neck group....mine has been in constant pain since fri, and although it's better, it's not great. as far as the bonnie and matt thing, you already know what i think: say it, say it, and say it again. and if she still don't get it, tell him to get the f- out! lol. best of luck w/ the situation!

your poor necks!

[amykrug]

Hi Girls,
Sara, I don't know how you deal with all the traveling! I just love sleeping in my own bed! By the way, I just came back from a 2 1/2 hour task force meeting (for child abuse) and my neck is pretty darn stiff as well! Figured I would just share that with you all! Hope there were no spiders in your room! :)
As for the roommate situation and yes I remember Bonnie-you definitely have to put your foot down-esp at the beginning or it will just keep getting worse. Tell him if he wants to stay all the time-then he needs to start paying rent too or give him other household chores to do. Doesn't he have a place to live?? can't she go with him there when you want to chill out on your few days home?? I would definitely talk to her again and if that doesn't work -bring it up with both of them at the same time. Maybe she hasn't even said anything to him. i like his name by the way-pretty funny! hope that helps! Keep us posted! Love, Amy :)

[nyydesignsync]

I'd leave him a bill for 1/3 of the rent, backdated to when he started there. Also give him a bill for a portion of all the utilitie, and tell him he has 5 days to pay or you're calling the cops for illegal trespassing. (Ok the last part was a little harsh but the 1st part is good).

I definately agree with Hope - tell him that this is your apt., yes, you know he's Bonnie BF, but this is your home and he needs to respect that.

Right now I'm having De'ja-vue back to my Sr. Year with my roomate and her little boyfriend, Gary from Phi Psi - I thought he lived in our room.

Good luck with your situation - do the bill thing - it's up to you but that's just the bitchiness in me - lol.

- oh and I feel asleep all wrong on the sectional at my parents house this weekend and woke up at 4 am and couldn't move, let alone move the next day. Strange things are happening.

[laur27]

Hey Sara-
Definitely talk to Bonnie again! It's as much your place as it is hers and his name is not on the lease. She has to know what your limits are and respect them or it is going to be a long year until your lease is up! And I completely hear you about watching Sex and the City with someone who doesn't get the show-that is totally annoying!
As for the neck stiffness thing-none to report here, but I afraid it is going to happen soon since it has happened to everyone else recently.

[mooshkee2]

Sara, I would say something to her again. It's not fair that you spend most of your time away from the house and when you come home you can't really relax. Now, I don't think you should ban her boyfriend from every Saturday night, cause that just won't be realistic. I would be real specific in what you expect, like say, every other Sunday night he can be here, instead of saying, he can't spend so much time here. It's easier to avoid doing something that's vague.

Oh, and I don't have a stiff neck