It sounds like ultimatum time to me. Be prepared for Heidi to side with the icky boyfriend, and don't imagine that anything you say, no matter how diplomatically phrased, will be received with anything short of hostility. You and Kristen are completely justified, and Heidi can go live next door in Doggy land. I would start putting out feelers for anther roommate. (And agreed that that shower biznz is just plain freaky.)
Completely Un-Sat! My sis just had to deal with a similar situation (supposedly short term woman with cat, and it was using B's razor not soap). It's been resolved now but I know how painful that sort of thing can be. It's not right when you don't feel at home in your own home thanks so someone's lack of consideration.
I had a (male) roommate borrow my deodorant. Couldn't find it anywhere - Next day I asked if he had seen it and he pulls it out of his bag. I mean, really. Keep it.
Jeeze. These things are never easy to resolve because anyone behaving that way (or letting their boyfriend behave that way) is already unwilling to get how insensitive they are being.
Just know that you MUST do something about it, and know that you two WILL be made out to be the villans. Nuthin' can be donwe about it but you've got to take action. Start looking for another roomate because Heidi is not going to stay after you kick her boyfriend out - next door.
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Just know that you MUST do something about it, and know that you two WILL be made out to be the villans. Nuthin' can be donwe about it but you've got to take action. Start looking for another roomate because Heidi is not going to stay after you kick her boyfriend out - next door.
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