Girls are one big fucking contradiction. Hence the reggression of my attitude. Apparantly, i had it right before when i was in highschool
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anonymous
February 28 2005, 20:41:01 UTC
It is a little easy to slip into generalizations of entire sexes, and as long as we assume that there is at least a minority of people from both sides who are NOT involved in this then I totally fucking agree with this generalization. FROM WHAT I'VE SEEN AND EXPERIENCED I can vouch for the validity of Jake's process, although I have no intent of "becoming a dick" regardless of how hurt I am right now. I'm just going to keep waiting for someone mature enough who knows what she wants and is past this bullshit.
Re: although...pags411February 28 2005, 21:02:48 UTC
Amen to the above poster. One reason Jeremy is such a solid kid is because he's not like me...meaning he has some sort of hope that the human race won't eat its own ass, people are inherently good, and he's understanding and aware of other peoples' feelings. Now to counter all that...I think we can actually generalize out into saying that ALL people of both genders and all flavors of sexual orientation suck. Maybe it's because of the way our culture handles/portrays relationships, love, and sex, which contributes to the constant extremes all young adults swing through with the opposite sex (or same sex). I'm trying to sypmathize with the opposing party in my arguments from now on, because the Dalai Lama teaches that forgivness and understanding lead to peace of mind and peace of the minds around you. But for whatever reason, if a guy or girl feels a certain way, there is no real garauntee his/her feelings will remain static. If a person has a change of heart, there needs to be some sort of understanding between the people
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it's definitely a game. we have to prove that we are better than the last girl that 'asshole' dated. but eventually we realize that we're not the problem, he is. and then we find 'the good guy.' and finally learn how a girl should be treated. and we vow that we will never again date an asshole. the thrill of the chase just isn't worth it anymore.
i had a lot to comment on i guessrapingreggieMarch 1 2005, 16:25:28 UTC
well, this sounds a lot like....um, me. this is definitly true for me..i do like a challenge and i do get easily bored. However, it isnt so much the whole "bored" factor that i leave people for. i am just very picky about people and become easily...um, we'll say distracted. I'm very attracted to the "mysterious." the ones that always leave you guessing, the ones that everytime you are with them you learn something new, the ones that stalk your mind everyday and you get so aggrivated and you hate it so much when they are away but as soon as you see them you melt. And everything is perfect, your life is perfect. It's all worth it then. Thats what i like. I think everyone, not just girls, likes some mystery in their significant other. everyone likes a little sweet catastrophe..{.as something corporate would say.} It makes life fun and when you find that person that just makes you and breaks you time and again, you never want to leave. fucked up? yes, indeed. I don't want this "dream guy" that treats you like a princess and kisses you on
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Re: i had a lot to comment on i guesssay_kissMarch 1 2005, 17:14:52 UTC
This is great, thanks for all the comments guys. ya Trish i definatly see where your coming from. Im glad you can actually admit what you want/like, i have alot of respect for you in that aspect.
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Definatly not in all cases, but thats not my point.
And im well aware that im generalizing, so feel free to feel offended. Becuase if you are, then this probably applies to you. :)
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