A little advise needed

[scarredfeathers]

My love is interfering with my job....or should I say....my job is interfering with my love? Whichever it turns out to be...it is quite difficult. I cannot be there when I say I can. I am irritating him with my...tardiness...and absences. This i can also say about my job. He is losing trust in me and I blame myself. I tell him i will be there and

Comments

[empressofevil]

I'm sorry Melissa... i just don't know what to say. Your situation is in no way a normal one. I do not know of all the limits and bounderies you are faced with. Normally, I would say to be honest with him...He loves you, but I'm thinking that honesty is just not an option available to you... but that doesn't mean that you can't be honest about your feelings. Tell him what you feel, what you've written here, just be completely honest with him about it all. If he asks you why it is your late, or what it is that has you trapped, then be honest with him in telling him that you just cannot say. Ask him to trust you and I'm sure he will. I'm sure it will all work out for the best

[starwind03]

Wow, You sure are in a jam aren't you? I still can't believe your in love. That's just so wierd, lol. In all seriousness though I think Cassandra is right. You should tell him at least half of the truth. That way he doesn't just think that your blowing him off. If he really loves you, he will stay. Good luck kiddo!