SOOO FRUSTERATED!!

[scorpio37]

I don't know what's wrong with me lately. But for some reason, whenever Mike comes over after work, I have this idea in my head that we will spend all afternoon together and be very happy. But instead, he stays for 20-30 minutes (today 10) and do nothing. It's really depressing, cause there is never enough time to do anything at all, and he tells

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[raetonalinn]

Long distance relationships are very tough, and both people have to be very committed for it to work. It helps if you know that you will see eachother a pre-determined amount of time, say everyother weekend or so.(which is what Jake and I have to do now) And you would have to make use of phone time, and e-mail to communicate.

I have been reading your entries, and you know that going to NY is the best thing for Mike. If you and him aren't happy in your lives it will be difficult for you to be happy in your relationship.

You need to talk to him about the way you feel...maybe just have him read these entries, they are very revealing. Take one of your 1/2 hours together and talk about your situation seriously.

And if you decide that he is going to stay here, try and be happy with what time you do get with him. You are lucky to have someone you love so much.

Good Luck,
I hope you can work this out and be happy.

-Cera

[scorpio37]

Thanks for the comment, I know you're right about confronting him about exactly how I feel, but whenever I try to..I suddenly become at a loss of words, and end up saying something that isn't really what I meant to say, and he takes it the wrong way.. and it gets even WORSE! And then he gets all mad at me... to be honost... I know this line is overused, but I really do think that we are starting to grow apart, and I am trying so hard to just stick it out and be there as a support for him, and he does that sometimes for me too, but not enough.. I need more than 10 minutes a day ya know? Uhg.. complicated stuff... sorry I keep drilling on the same subject.. :-/.. it's just very stressful. Guess I need to sit down and take some notes on exactly what is bothering me, and when we do talk, I can refer to them, like a true girly relationship obbsessed nerd :-p thanks again for your imput! I think it gave me that little boost to actrually do something about it.. (to be honost with you I didn't think anyone ever read my posts anymore lol)

[syn2424]

... Reading the name Readsboro sends a painful shock down my spine... my dad lives there :(