Having a kid will NOT help you get over your eating disorder!! If you still have body image issues now, wait. When you start showing, you will actually be big with the baby. Which is a good thing because it's natural and beautiful, but when you have an eating disorder..... it will just make things worse. ESPECIALLY if you are still using your e.d. behaviors. With a baby growing inside you, you need to make SURE you are not only eating healthy, but keeping what you eat down. And seeing a doctor for regular check-ups, weigh-ins, etc. I'm not telling you not to have it. I LOVE being around children and I currently work with preschoolers. But I know that I, personally, am not ready to actually have kids. I don't even have a boyfriend so it's not an option anyway. lol But still. And I don't know when or even if I'll be ready for that kind of challenge. I'm glad to hear that you enjoy spending wime with Mike. But you're so young and you have so much ahead of you yet. Don't tie yourself down to the role of wife and mother so soon. Go to
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i know it seems wicked crazy, i really appreciate your input, i do really need advice with this. of course ive thought long and hard about how it would change my life, i think we are at least waiting a year, none of this is ceritain, its just something ive been thinking about for a long time believe it or not, and i do deffinately have to get healthy first. im a strong believer in fate, whatever happens is whats ment to happen. im still just considering it. i wont have one till im sure
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do it, you wont.
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