"They're just afraid to change.."

[secretcommon_jk]

You would think that someone trying to sabotage a close friendship of mine would make me angry. It's the normal response, isn't it? Or that it would make me disappointed in the person who I had tried to help, who wanted to be friends... but no, i'm really not angry at all. i'm not sad, i'm not disappointed, i'm not mad, i'm not really anything

Comments

[chaos_reigns]

What do you mean "you people"?!

[secretcommon_jk]

Ya mean "you two people"? As in you and Sarah. You're the only two of my buddies that really use this any more.

[chaos_reigns]

I was being funny and making a race oriented comment. :p

[secretcommon_jk]

Not funny enough, my friend. ha. just playin. now that i know what you're on about, it's pretty funny,

[living_dead_nun]

aww weeza I love you too!

Is the person you are talking about who I think it is??... If so the only thing I can say is be the better person ... it sucks people do crappy things .. The only thing you can do is what you are doing... Be a good loving friend.
I have learned that you cannot make see what and who you truly are ... until they understand themselves.. They will find all their faults in you ... They will blame you for their guilty feelings...It is hard ...Cause you know these people are not bad people .... Just not developing .. They are as you said it afraid of change... To change you have admit there is something wrong...or you need improving ...

I heart you lady i am sorry you have to go through this...
You are a wonderful person and dont let anyone else tell you otherwise :o)

[secretcommon_jk]

Tbh, Sarah, I can't help but feel that they ARE bad. It's been so deceitful, trying to lure me into thinking they are my friend, just so they can get something to use against me. It's very ugly

[secretcommon_jk]

* so got to get together. jeez. lol