One doesn't need to have children to know that your decision to leave your son was not one that was made lightly, or for shallow reasons. Personally, I think it does a child greater harm for the parents to stay together when they are at odds. What's better, a child knowing that Mommy and Daddy love them, even when relationships change and part or a child blaming themselves for being the reason that their parents stayed together in an unhappy relationship?
You said it best...minglumpeeDecember 19 2006, 16:47:18 UTC
Seth said:Been writeing this message for over 20 min now and am still shakeing! I know this is Seagirt, I know this is gossip central, it is well known that there are people here who like to gossip. But what sad sad little pathetic people who spend their time spreading rumors about others because their life is just so FUCKING PATHETIC that they have nothing better to do than slander other people...GOOD PEOPLE!!! Certain people like to talk around here and pass around gossip, you know that as much as anyone here. It's a part of things here, but it's also a part of life that shouldn't be acceptable. I've taken a lot of BS through LJ, Rocks, and other mediums. Most people think of me as pretty calm guy, but I do lose my temper and in some cases want to ram certain person's teeth in as well. But honestly the bigger thing to do is to ignore it and move on-sometimes embracing the person that screwed you over. You know what's true to your heart and that's apparent in your impassioned posting. There is no sense in losing your cool over it (I'
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I've never understood why people just can't let others live their own lives...why people can't stay out of business which is not theirs. I guess it helps take their focus off their own crap.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. You're a really funny, sweet, good-hearted guy and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. I've never been married, or had children, so I have no idea how hard it was for you but I can't imagine this was a decision to be made lightly. Not by a man like you. Sometimes a person does what they need to do...for everyone's benefit in the end...but that path can be the hardest one to take.
Anyway, big hugs to you. And know that there are many people who believe in you, and while staying out of your business, will also support you whenever you need it :)
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I'm sorry for whatever happened to you...I wish I could help :(
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Certain people like to talk around here and pass around gossip, you know that as much as anyone here. It's a part of things here, but it's also a part of life that shouldn't be acceptable. I've taken a lot of BS through LJ, Rocks, and other mediums. Most people think of me as pretty calm guy, but I do lose my temper and in some cases want to ram certain person's teeth in as well. But honestly the bigger thing to do is to ignore it and move on-sometimes embracing the person that screwed you over. You know what's true to your heart and that's apparent in your impassioned posting. There is no sense in losing your cool over it (I' ( ... )
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. You're a really funny, sweet, good-hearted guy and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. I've never been married, or had children, so I have no idea how hard it was for you but I can't imagine this was a decision to be made lightly. Not by a man like you. Sometimes a person does what they need to do...for everyone's benefit in the end...but that path can be the hardest one to take.
Anyway, big hugs to you. And know that there are many people who believe in you, and while staying out of your business, will also support you whenever you need it :)
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