My life is unraveling

[shabinka]

Oh Holy Jesus. Today was an awful day. I had a 3 month performance review today. My boss was really hard on me. She was unhappy that I was not able to find an aromatherapist or music therapists to volunteer their time to the organization

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[martian687]

I'm so sorry. How stressful =(

Try not to take it too personally. ::hugs::

[shabinka]

Thanks. It's hard not to take it personally because I feel like I'm working hard. It's really weird for her to put words in my mouth and say this job isn't fulfilling my gerontology needs. What the hell? How do I respond to that?

I'm just going to try to hang in there and work on improving so I don't lose my job. I did put in three job applications though because I feel like I'm on thin ice.

BTW- I'm sorry for what you are going through too. I've never heard of a guy who rushed to say I love you. Not to be sexist but usually it feels like women rush to that. Or at least that has been my case in my relationships. I don't necessarily think it was disingenuous. I do think though that perhaps just as easily as he could rush to say I love you, he could also quickly decide he didn't love you. Which is a shame. Seema, you know it's his loss and he is the one missing out on an awesome person.

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I want to hear more about these women you've dated.

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(awkward, not-terribly-funny jokes is how I express my love and support)