Hmm I don't even know why I asked that. Well, I guess hmm... I don't know it depends I think it's kind of stupid if say you're in one and you know there's no chance you'll see eachother for another... 5 or so years. Alright, that's taking it to the a bit to the extreme but yes. For example, if I had a boyfriend before I left I don't think it would've lasted had we tried to do the whole 'long distance thing'. But I mean depends on the people and the intensity of the relationship blah blah, yeah I don't know, I'm not good with these relationship things.
omg shells... you wanna talk about long distance relationships???? i am your girl.. cause i have one mother of a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong distance relationship
this is going to be epic long so i apologise in advanceuglee_mofoOctober 31 2004, 21:54:19 UTC
it's not that hard if you really like the person. i haven't seen tom for i dunno, between 1-2months. but we both have obligations to keep us occupied so i haven't really felt lonely while he's been gone and i speak to him every 2nd day and we send emails and sms' so the contact never dies. right now it's interstate, he's in QLD, but it'll turn to international when he goes back to england. that is uber long distance, pretty much the furthest point of the world from australia. [hooray...not]. but i dunno if i'll still be with him by the time he leaves cause we'll have been together for a year and that's a bit optimistic of me... lol. but yeah it's not hard if you put effort into it, and when you like the person the effort is really no effort at all because you want to know how they are and you want them to know you miss them, etc etc etc. the hard part is not having any physical contact. but it makes you realise whether they were just a convenient boyfriend or if you like them for who they are. if that made sense. i hope it did.
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i think its extremely difficult but do-able. it certainly is not ideal, but then again, the thought of seeing a girl every day and then talking on the fone every night is quite unappealing, even if i did like her. i doubt there could be anyone i want to talk to that much. but it wont be too bad if i prove myself wrong in this regard.
You guys it twas only a hypothetical question... Not even hypothetical... I was thinking about relationships and it occured to me how hard it might be to have long distance relationships.... but then i suppose it does depend on the people involved. Long distance relationships wouldnt work for me cause I'd miss the person too much and I don't think i could handle the "not being able to see them" part.
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For example, if I had a boyfriend before I left I don't think it would've lasted had we tried to do the whole 'long distance thing'.
But I mean depends on the people and the intensity of the relationship blah blah, yeah I don't know, I'm not good with these relationship things.
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but that's not always applicable.
hmmm... this was of little help.
i apologise.
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whats up???
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