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[sheltonb_lj]

Right. So it's Valentines Day again. And I don't have a significant other or my daughther to celebrate with. I sent Mariah a card in the mail. But if she gets it it'll be the shock of the century. Her mother and me ain't exactly seeing eye to eye at the moment. We got into it pretty bad when she came to pick her up on Friday night. And I fully

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[charlie_d_haas]

She said WHAT in front of Mariah?! Are you KIDDING me, Shelton? After the hell that woman has put you and your daughter through? Jesus Christ it's a good thing I don't live in South Carolina.

No. Fuck that bullshit. I'm calling her. End of story.

[sheltonb_lj]

Charlie...shit, son. Calm down. The world ain't bout to come to an end because she's being a bitch. In case ya hadn't noticed, it's sorta her default state.

Don't worry about me or making any phone calls. For real. It's Valentines Day and you've got the day off. Spend your time with D. My shit'll work itself out. You know it always does.

[m_jindrak]

That was always my biggest fear. What my ex would say to my son about me. For the most part she's been kind about it but towards me she shows her disapproval and she has her ways of pissing me off by making up excuses as to why I can't see Marcus. But it was the biggest relief when I finally told him about me, even if he fully didn't understand but it was like he did. And he didn't judge me. Who knows what'll happen when he gets older but I'm hoping for the best.

[sheltonb_lj]

I don't know how old your son is. But with my daughter...it's like, she's only four, you know? It's not that I don't want her to understand who her father is. But what the hell am I supposed to say to a four year old little girl? Especially when I'd have to involve her "Uncle Charlie" in the conversation. It's just a mess right now.

[m_jindrak]

He's 4. And amazingly he's been exposed to this since he was 2 now that I think about it wow. Like I was never really ashamed to have him around me if I was with whomever I was dating. Yeah that definitely is a mess and I can sense she'd be all sorts of confused. Everybody's different though so, whenever it feels right for you sit her down and talk.

[impactdivadawn]

...and when I beat that bitch down for using such language. SHE is the cracked one.

[sheltonb_lj]

I already told you it wouldn't do ya no good, Sugar. It's just how she is.

[daffney_screams]

There are just certain things that you do not say. And clearly this woman (The word is used loosely) crossed the line. Here I am upset, and saddened because that poor little girl has to be around such a person whose own insecurities and inadequacies make her lash out with words that aren't fit for any child to hear at any time.

Don't think that you are a bad father. That woman is not much of a mother.