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[shentiger127]

I just don't know what to do.  I try so hard to be the best friend that I can and it seems that I fail regularly.  The thing I hate most is the drifting away of friends, and I try to be mindful of it, alleviate the problem as best I can, and continue on like before.  But it is just getting so taxing.  I don't mean to sound self-aggrandizing, but it

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[izzathug]

Very few friends stick with you to the end. It's unfortunate, but how it is. Sometimes, you just need to take a break from being the one that tries so hard. The good friends will notice your lack of presence and pull you back in. As much as some friends claim that they're oh so close, most of the time, it's just words. I have very few friends that if I stray, they make an effort, and if they stray, I make an effort.
If it's important to you, keep trying. But take a break at times.

[frozen_music]

geoff, you do not get enough credit for being a level headed and awesome person. I think you are very in tune with reality, and while reality may not be very exciting often causes that disillusioned feeling, those other people who are "doing the college thing" will some day have to face up to reality and the change will be worse than if they saw it in the first place