Cut me just a little wisdom so I can quit making such crappy decisions. My IQ must have gone down to about the intelligence of a lunch tray this year. More to come
It seems to me that your mistakes have been made from trusting people to be basically good and honest and then finding out that they're actually terribly messed up and have taken their failings out on you. Maybe your hope in starting a new life there prevented you from protecting yourself from the negative side of human nature? I don't know, Ilene, it just seems like some very needy people latched onto your vulnerability and SHOOK it to pieces. *sigh*
I do hope you can extricate yourself from the damage they've done and be the good, independent person you know you can be.
Don't be so hard on yourself, Ilene. Bad stuff happens to good people and it's not always anybody's fault. I agree with what Seren says. They have taken advantage of you and abused your trust and good faith. That's wrong. I hope nothing horrible is happening again. (((hugs)))
Take a deep breath and remember you came to where you are because family wanted you to be there & promised to help. You are a strong woman who has had her confidence shaken by people you love. I hope it gets better for you!
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I do hope you can extricate yourself from the damage they've done and be the good, independent person you know you can be.
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((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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I agree with what Seren says. They have taken advantage of you and abused your trust and good faith. That's wrong. I hope nothing horrible is happening again.
(((hugs)))
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I hope it gets better for you!
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It's my life right now.
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