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[silverthoughts]

Sorry haven't written in a while. I hate sounding like an angst ridden teenager on here but I decided to write because my heart suddenly hurt a lot just now and I'm afraid to talk to anyone i know for I fear I will scare them away. I wanted to lock it but I figured, fuck it. The boy no longer reads me. He told me he blocked me from Facebook so I

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[ukelelehip]

Silver, I'm sorry to hear this. Boys can be such ... ugh, let's not go into it.

Hope you have a great holiday with your new friends.

x

[redroses1791]

8( <3 *hugs!?*

/the fail comment.

edit: You're gonna have a great holiday anyway with your new friends! :3 <3 i betcha betcha~~~!

[_inbetween_]

I was worried that all I could say was "I know, I know" because that being deleted thing keeps happening to me with every relationship, it seems. But then I read how you are still friends with other exes and that is such a good thing, and rare, and surely weighs up against him. Because the worst is that everyone where you live seems to side with him, but in reality there are more people who didn't behave like asshats and so their evaluation of and relationship with you has to be more real or at least help you in not succumbing to the feeling of there being something wrong with you. I'll be alone this Xmas like every year, and your last sentence is again proving that you Won't be. And I truly think and feel that that is very, very good. Yes, one is extra worried about being a bore to those people as well, but trying to take it easy might help, and it Is better than being alone with a pretty plant.

PS: it's never (just) teen angst; the hurt is real and for every age. I wish you beautiful days, Silver.

[hiyami]

*hugs*
Sadly, it's hard to find relationships of any kind that lasts, so that's why it best to never let an old one get in the way of new ones.
Keep going out, meeting new people, making new friends.
Sometimes relationships fall out without anyone being responsible, and sometimes there is someone being responsible, but the best thing you can do about it is to not let him screw up your present life.

I hope you have fun for Christmas :)

[ozfille]

I'm so sorry that this has happened and can understand how lonely and abandoned you feel. I'm sure you will rise above the pettiness of your ex and your old friends and find a new and better life with new and more loyal friends

[wickedcherub]

It is completely and utterly immaturity and cowardice and everytime something new comes up it just serves to remind that it probably was a good thing that the relationship ended before it got really serious.

I'm so sorry Silvy that you're hurt by an immature douchy jackass. I'm sorry that he acted just fine up until the end so that you were blindsided. I think that's the worst of it - you just didn't see it coming.

I'm so sorry that you put so much effort building up a relationship, a friendship, and have it just disappear like that. Why you gotta live in a different country, huh?

Stay strong, keep going out, have fun, find new things to do that you never did with him :)