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Sep 08, 2010 03:04

Friends cut.
Seriously, you think it's funny to breach a person's trust?
If you don't think you should have been cut let me know (I'm cutting about 95% of my flist).I'm sorry, the wording for this is all wrong. I didn't mean it as in "give me a good reason why I shouldn't cut you" at all. I just mean that there might people who wanted to stay on my ( Read more... )

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flyslip September 8 2010, 09:06:48 UTC
I don't know what to say (not being a member at those type of groups anymore), except I know how much some ignorant assholes can hurt on the 'net... and that I'm around on teh Messenger here if you want or need to talk to someone who gets it.

Oh, and folks who do the trust-breach? OUCH and WHAT BULLSHIT. That is all.

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skramamme September 8 2010, 09:43:22 UTC
Oh man, you have no idea. Apparently I lost custody of Sophia while bragging that I wasn't going to stop using and um... I think there's more but I couldn't read it because it was really fucking triggering.
Honestly, shit like that is going to bring up a strong desire to use to help cope with the strong anger, but as long as they get to pay out on someone damn the real life consequences, right? Fortunately the strategies I have in place (like living away from Melbourne, staying on my suboxone and so on) helped me to ride ou the urge to use, so fuck them.

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flyslip September 8 2010, 11:30:06 UTC
Oh, Christ on a cracker. Some people need a smack around the ears with a keyboard...

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cooperwench September 8 2010, 09:46:23 UTC
Yeaaahhh...Not going over there, not looking....Last time I tried to White Knight for a friend it blew up in my face, srsly.
Haven't regretted leaving sf_d for a minute.

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skramamme September 8 2010, 11:33:16 UTC
Thanks bb. I am just amazed at the level of vitriol. I guess it's that whole anon mentality, there's no accountability for saying stuff that is either misconstrued or completely untrue.
Like did you know I apparently lost custody of my daughter because I wouldn't stop using? ha, news to me (and I'm sure Sophia would be surprised to considering this never happened).

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cooperwench September 8 2010, 14:11:33 UTC
Well, people's lives are sooo boring they need that judgy-mcjudgerson in them to spice it up a bit. Well, I want to tell them, "If you leave Mommy's basement, there's a WHOLE WORLD out there!"

But, yeah. Idgi.

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skramamme September 8 2010, 11:18:07 UTC
oh wow, I am sorry, I didn't mean it that way, I'm really sorry :\
I didn't mean that I wanted people to plead their case or anything, I just meant if anyone wanted to stay on my flist to let me know as I was cutting pretty much everyone.
I will re-word the entry because I really, really didn't mean it the way it's come across.

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skramamme September 8 2010, 11:23:03 UTC
Also, I'm very sorry that you've had to deal with similar shit, it feels so violating :( Please accept my apology for my initial wording in this post, I have edited it to be clearer.

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jeunelis September 8 2010, 11:11:06 UTC
I am really sorry someone violated your trust and leaked your shit. I understand you gotta do what you gotta do and people are shitheads :(

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skramamme September 8 2010, 11:26:27 UTC
it's cool, I am sorry I just randomly cut pretty much everyone. I was pretty upset at the time and was just reacting without thinking.

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writewrongs September 8 2010, 11:19:00 UTC
I don't even understand why people stay on anon. I'm pretty sure it's full of lizziey-typoes and other fuck ups who are petty lolcows ashamed of using their real screennames.

I don't go there, and every time I hear about something from there I just don't follow the links. There is shit I just don't need to know. And I guarantee I'd have the same reaction if I were you, so I don't blame you one bit.

Whatever was specifically said, just keep your head up in knowing that you're not the kind of person who has to anonymously through out other people's personal information to draw attention to yourself.

Much love lady!

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skramamme September 8 2010, 11:28:59 UTC
Thanks, yeah it's pretty upsetting to read stuff that is either completely out of context or outright untrue. I hardly ever go to sfd_anon because I find that people use i to be downright vicious o others and I don't understand that.

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