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Sep 08, 2010 03:04

Friends cut.
Seriously, you think it's funny to breach a person's trust?
If you don't think you should have been cut let me know (I'm cutting about 95% of my flist).I'm sorry, the wording for this is all wrong. I didn't mean it as in "give me a good reason why I shouldn't cut you" at all. I just mean that there might people who wanted to stay on my ( Read more... )

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nitouche September 8 2010, 12:01:13 UTC
Hey there -- I'm sorry to have been cut. I must say, I think your posts on addiction have been fascinating, and have definitely challenged my (previously-unexamined) assumptions about addiction and addicts. I haven't looked at sfd_anon in a long time, largely because anonymity gives even greater scope than pseudonymity for people to be asshats to other people -- I'm sorry to hear you're the butt (so to speak) if other people's assholery.

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skramamme September 8 2010, 12:50:07 UTC
I'm glad that my entries have given you a different perspective on these issues. That's really good to know, that I'm not just wasting my words because that's kinda how it felt in my ontd_f post. Admittedly I should have considered how controversial some of my statements were (mainly "what's wrong with using heroin? I like it"). I should have either left that out or explained my point in a better way (I was referring to being prescribed a maintanence dose, just as they do with other opiate substitutes).
but to read such vitriol over in sfd_anon, stuff that's not only vicious but untrue, is really hard, especially when someone's leaking stuff from my locked posts here :\

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reservoir September 8 2010, 12:16:21 UTC
Just wanted to say I've been there - both with leaked entries and being trolled on sfd_anon in the last few months and it is so emotionally draining. Do whatever it is you need to do to feel comfortable (this is why I made everything up until about June of this year private).

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skramamme September 8 2010, 12:42:50 UTC
Thanks for your comment. I don't understand the motivation to hurt people this way. And the stuff they're saying is untrue, which makes it even more infuriating. I am open about my flaws y'know? They don't need to make up any more, I've got more than enough :\
I'm sorry you've had similar stuff happen, it's so vindictive and just... nasty.

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lulu_girl September 8 2010, 15:17:22 UTC
Hiya.

I totally understand your need to lj-cut. I'm only now catching up on the recent wanksplosion.

I've also been very lj awol lately too. However, should you ever decide to re-add I'm okay with that. :)

all my best wishes1

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skramamme September 8 2010, 23:40:13 UTC
IKR? The level of vitriol is honesty frightening. Yet I bet they're the same people who act all outraged if someone makes an ill advised comment in sf_d. Hypocrites.

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confectionqueen September 8 2010, 16:23:35 UTC
That is seriously fucked up and I'm really sorry someone did that to you. I really hate the anon comms sometimes :\ *hugs*

I understand the cut, though I wouldn't mind coming back on your flist if that's okay :o

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skramamme September 8 2010, 23:42:41 UTC
Thanks, yeah there was a lot of really horrible (and untrue) stuff written there that was terribly hurtful. And to have someone leak stuff from a locked entry was just the last straw. I kinda went on a de-friending frenzy :\

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