Anew?

[skywalker57]

Hello again, it's been a while since my last post, so it seems like I should update. I think that I've found the definition of life: Irony. In my singleness, I've noticed a lot more of what really goes on at parties and the like. I'd like to think that I wouldn't do this, but I honestly don't know where my values lie in this, especially if I had

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[skywalker57]

Wow, you guys are awesome, I really appreciate everything you guys have said. There is one thing that does p!ss me off though, not all of the girls who go after assholes are not worth it. I can think of a few that are "worth-it" girls that go out or are interested in assholes.

hmmm

[guyver82]

you say all some girls out there who date assholes are worth it but do oyu realy know these girls to say they are its on thing to be friends with a girl and its another to date them, its like renting a place or owning a place if you rent it its cool to have but you dont own it and you dont have to worry about keeping it up. Now if you own the place you have to pay what it takes to keep ip up and you have to make sure to keep it up if you want it to stay around. When it comes to dateing there are side of people you thought they never had sides that are hard to deal with.

Re: hmmm

[gothamgirl]

I can't believe you just compared dating a girl to real estate transactions.

Re: hmmm

[guyver82]

well i can compare it to other things but that one just popped it. Sorry if you find it offensive. Trust me there nothing alike just alittle similar.

[fish_of_the_sea]

chris;

you are a great guy! you are the nice one everyone turns to when they need help, including myself. don't worry about the asshole guys getting girls or the asshole girls who date them. you will find someone, someone special and that is worth your time. i am not sure a party scene is the best place, everyone is drinking and half the people there are only there to "hook up and have a good time". you are not that type of guy and you deserve better than some girl who only wants to have fun for one night. you will find someone special among the people you love and trust, your friends.

good luck, you will find someone special!

your friend;
kim

finding someone special

[guyver82]

I hope you find that someone that kim speaks about i have an idea who it might be, i hope you find them soon. It will make you very happy.

[skywalker57]

Thanks again everyone. I want to make clear that I'm not just using parties to find someone, I keep my eyes open everywhere, but it's not as easy as a party, because it's a completely social thing, whereas, you usually are doing something else in the real world. But don't worry, I can't become an asshole, because my values won't let me. I'm still adjusting to this life, and forgive me if i'm a little confused or bitter every once in a while. As so many people have said to me, I have a long road ahead of me, and i'm still learning things about being single and meeting women. For some reason, it's easy for me to chalk up my failures in this field to learning experiences. Also, i'm not sure how long that road really is.

You are learning younge Padawan

[guyver82]

Know one knows how long it will take. So the best thing to do is keep your head up and keep on at it.

[guyver82]

and i know that you see me as one of the asshole guys but my girl(you know who she is isnt one of the asshole girls isnt one of the asshole girls.

[skywalker57]

Actually, I don't see as the "asshole" type of guy, you are a nice guy. Don't mistake supporting my friends for disliking you, I simply take my friend's side and try to make them feel better. Treat her right, and you won't have anything to worry about.