Comments | sleeptech81: Well, I did it.

sleeptech81

Well, I did it.

Feb 11, 2009 21:40

There are only three people who know about this, which should tell you something. But, I did something tonight that was a long time coming, and I'm glad I did it. What is it, might you ask?

( I just had dinner with Stephanie. Yes, you heard me right. )

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kuddles913 February 12 2009, 12:22:07 UTC

I have that "Say what you need to say" song stuck in my head now.. The good thing is it is not annoying.

But, I say good for you! A lot of people would not have been as mature on EITHER of your parts to do something like that. That took a lot for both of you.

sleeptech81 February 12 2009, 15:01:23 UTC

She even bought dinner. I was shocked!

kuddles913 February 12 2009, 15:19:58 UTC

She bought dinner... or she slept with the waiter afterward?

sleeptech81 February 12 2009, 17:14:10 UTC

Well, I saw her drive away, she I don't think she slept with the waiter afterward.

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twinkletoestata February 12 2009, 13:36:54 UTC

i too have "say what you need to say" stuck in my head.

you know i understand needing to express feelings and emotions. and i understand needing closure. i hope you have it now.

i hope you are also okay with me continuing to think she's a rabid whore with mental health problems. kthxbye

pinkrose1098 February 12 2009, 16:02:44 UTC

I'm really glad you got the closure you needed but I'm with Tiffany on my opinion of her.

sleeptech81 February 12 2009, 17:06:48 UTC

I would expect no less from you or her... and I mean that in the best way possible. I'm glad that there are people who care enough about me to continue to be defensive of me through thick and thin.

Thank you.

veazey21 February 12 2009, 20:22:53 UTC

Good for you. I'm glad everything has been worked out; now you're free to move on with a lighter step and a more open countenance.

bootyliciousnic February 12 2009, 23:54:03 UTC

I've been wondering about that since we talked that night. I'm glad it went off without a hitch though and I'm even more glad that you feel good about everything. In the end, that's all that matters =)

twinkletoestata February 13 2009, 04:00:55 UTC

for sure that's all that matters.

my advice from the beginning was that if hearing her out made HIM feel better, go for it. if he was just going to do it because she wanted him to...not worth it. when you get done THAT wrong, you get to call the shots, and it's on YOUR timeline.

eh, i'm sure i'm preaching to the choir :)

bootyliciousnic February 14 2009, 03:17:27 UTC

Lol for sure. My sentiments exactly. I can't seem to fathom that someone would think SO highly of themselves, that they think they can just treat whomever however they want. Spoken like you've also been a member of the "I date a jerk" club at some point. But hey, I've come to realize those experiences just helped strengthen and make me who I am today.

twinkletoestata February 14 2009, 14:52:27 UTC

yeah, when bad stuff happens in a relationship, you just have to think of it as something that helped shape you...if not, it could just drive you crazy.

and you just said EXACTLY what i've been thinking...she thinks she is SO awesome...a few years ago, she got a myspace account and reunited with everyone she knew. said she wanted to get her life right again. then she started reminiscing. then she started flirting. then she told everyone she had an abusive marriage and everyone felt for her. then she went to far with a few people and deleted the account.

now she has started a facebook account, is doing the SAME thing. when she has to delete this account, what social networking site will be available to help her get her life right?

/rant