today it looks lke crap outside

[smallfry746]

well i went to OU and worked out my schedule. that makes me feel good considering i had to be done asap. i have forever to go but i dont want to think of it that way. i am just so blah trying to work, have school, maintain relationships, save money for a house and wedding. its just so ahhhhh

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[cheerchump5]

saving for a house & wedding is NOT easy. Even when you have familiy helping pay for the wedding.

It is very stressful.

When are you guys looking to get married?

[smallfry746]

june 21, 2008. yes its soooo stressful, i dont really have much help. justins parents want to but they dont have a lot to spare and my mom wont give crap. we dont even talk. my dad would with whatever he can. so we are shooting for a small wedding, nothing tooo fairybook but something that we will both like and enjoy. and then get a nice house. he is more focused on the house im focused on preparing. cuz with school im not going to have a lot of planning time. ugh. idk. haha

[cheerchump5]

That is how Anth & I are...he is more concerned about the house, and I'm more concerned about the wedding...it balances out.

When we first got engaged, I had this HUGE thing built up in my mind, but once you start pricing things, you realize that the only way you can spend that much on a wedding is if you win the lottery. So I toned it down a lot, and decided I was much happier saving money. That way we could have a nicer house, too. Truly, I think it's more important that we have a nice house than a big huge wedding, but I don't want a little crappy wedding, either.

As long as you are creative and you use the resources you have handy, you can totally have a beautiful, intimate wedding for like, $3000.

Anyway, have fun planning! :)