Stalkers and Bullsh*t

[sno_angel1488]

To begin with, if you feel that you are being stalked, take the situation seriously! Don't ignore the person's behavior and assume that it will go away over time - chances are in won't! Here are a few things that you can do to protect yourself:

·         Consider obtaining a restraining order.

·         File police reports for harassment and save

Comments

[glorgana]

That fuck-head is STILL causing you trouble?!? Geez, well it sound like you are doing the right stuff, maybe he'll die in a fire....

[sno_angel1488]

Oh lordy, we can only hope! Karma, my dear - I have faith that Karma will have its way someday. Hopefully in the form of a huge intimidating inmate at some random prison who takes a liking to his butt. LOL

Ugh.

[adventure_girl]

Sounds like the kind of shit my ex-husband put me through. Totally psycho

Re: Ugh.

[sno_angel1488]

It's amazing how you never think it can happen to you, until all of a sudden you're blind sided one day.

I know the order of protection I got in Chicago is valid for two years, and when I refiled it here they said to let them know if an extension was going to be needed. I don't think it's difficult to get the order extended - especially when I start receiving cryptic messages that exactly fit the pattern from the first round of harassment.

Thanks for the support. No one should ever have to deal with this stuff...

[estuary_woman]

This is just so appalling, but your actions and responses are confident, direct and comprehensive - especially about making sure as many people know about this as possible and shining a spotlight on this individual. Thank you for the list of characteristics etc- I find that my life is really enhanced by friendships of all kinds and am always very open to making new friends, especially locally in my village- but I will have somewhere at the back of my mind all these things.. as well as trusting my instincts- but I guess we all know, sometimes instinct isn't enough.

[sno_angel1488]

It's amazing how it can totally blind-side you. My parents raised two pretty strong daughters, but this came out of nowhere when I was in a vulnerable spot (when my Mom's health began to fail). These people are predators - they see someone who's at a weak point, and they prey on that person. I never thought something like that would happen to me, but I've definitely learned some strong lessons from this.

[transparent_one]

I know how it is to get stalked I'm not going to go into details but I'm glad you got away from the guy :)

and I hope he leaves you alone he sounds really scary :o *hugs*

[sno_angel1488]

I know that he can't physically get to me. I'm not worried about it. And I'll see what I have to do to make the order of protection permanent. Plus that goes on his record, so anything he does in the future, it'll be known that he's a previous stalker. This will only come back to bite him in the ass. I'm not worried about it. Exposure is the best thing - expose the idiot for what he is...

[outsideguy]

very sorry. hugs.

[sno_angel1488]

Some people are just idiots and have no life outside trying to ruin other people's lives.

Thanks. :) I can always use a hug. :)