you know what's fucking frustrating? i never thought i would be the person to punish somebody for someone else's mistake but eric fucking RUINED me. i don't trust anyone fully except my four best friends. i've learned to have low expectations and take what everyone says with a grain of salt because words mean nothing anymore, they're just promises ( Read more... )

why is it so hard to be happy for someone that you had a previous relationship with? whether it was romantic or a friendship, it seems that accepting the fact that someone is happy without you kills us inside. is it because we are all subconsciously in competition with each other? who can move on and be happier first? is it because we're attached ( Read more... )

"i think that the most difficult part of growing up, by far, is accepting that the world does not revolve around you. when i was little, i thought i was really mature because i had already known that the bus keeps picking up people after you get off at your stop of it and that school lessons are still taught whether you're in your seat or not, but ( Read more... )

why do girls stay in abusive relationships? sometimes they're not even WITH the person and they still take shit.

GIRLS: don't lower your expectations, change what you want, or accept the role you've been assigned just because something is better than nothing.

i think girls stick in shitty relationships or put up with abuse because 
1. they get some ( Read more... )

i can't believe how fucked up some people are. don't get me wrong, i've done some fucked up shit that i'm not proud of - but learning from those experiences, i've become more aware and definitely more sensitive to peoples feelings and the actions that are caused by these feelings. i'd like to think people are innately good, so i can't help but feel ( Read more... )

so i decided to resurrect my retired lj.  the first few entries are just my FB notes moving to a more suitable home.

"you can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've or should've happened. OR, you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move ( Read more... )