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[solarisiris]

Another pageant?! What?! :D

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[rareinfidelity]

serious question, not trying to be mean or anything:

but why do you enter into pageants and contests that criticizes your body and "personality" and makes you into this object out for viewing? do you like to be judged or something?

-klara

p.s. not trying to mean so if it comes off as mean i'm sorry. i really just want to know.

[solarisiris]

Well, contrary to popular belief, pageants really are a good learning experience. It builds a lot of confidence in front of big crowds and reacting quickly to certain situations. It may not look like it from the outside, but it's different for everyone. I've never done a pageant where I had to be in a bathing suit or anything, so I've never experienced someone criticizing my body. As for personality, they don't really put you "down" so to speak, they just tell you what you need to work on. They don't straight out tell you that you suck. Honestly, some people are made for pageants and some aren't. Some people actually care about making a difference in their community, some people just want a crown and sash. Sometimes it makes all the difference. The right person doesn't always win, sometimes they never win, but in the end it makes you a stronger person destined for bigger and better things. At least I think...

[rareinfidelity]

destined for bigger and better things? are you talking about like acting or something? do you want to do something in the entertainment business? is that why you think this will help you?

[excapevelocity]

if you do them, you better tell me so i can actully go cherr you on

[excapevelocity]

cheer*

[solarisiris]

I liked cherr better.

lol.

[atgateseven]

cherr. dude it's on. for reals, i'm making a poster... "CHERR-ING FOR QUEENO". haha cherr. oh man i'm going to secretly laugh at that allllll day.