Bamalam on the pani-sti? MY DAMI'S!!!

[sombraro]

Mmmmm, so anyway... I've been chilling on the pani-sti and thinking... Why does anyone need a significant other?

- Physical Gratification? I'm sure you can find a workaround for this one... And if you’re not up for the constant "Palm-lovin" then find a willing party, who isn’t up for emotional attachment. Physical Gratification is reached without

Comments

[ctudball]

Nobody needs a significant other. Period.

[sombraro]

bamalam my dami... Agreed.

[ctudball]

Having said this, it still doesn't mean it's not a valid choice. but it's most definitely not a necessity.

[saffireblue]

While i agree completely no one needs another, it is nice.

as for Love i think the knack is giving enough freedom that there is no dependance.

but working out what you want from a relationship and seeking that and not settling for less and not automatically doing what society tells you is normal.

just my thoughts.

[sae_ra]

mmmmmmm..... nah... I've got nothing... I think the only answer I can give is.... people just do

[sombraro]

mmm, thats kinda the point. Poeple are raised and told that one day they're going to meet someone perfect for them. Because they're told this they search for it. People then find someone, who's not perfect, but settle for it, and end up miserable.

Why cant people be happy alone?

[sae_ra]

some people are (happy alone), but then again idea of sharing things with a significant other is appealing to people. I blame it all on fairy tales.... they've set it up so that everyone looks for the "happily ever after" endings in their life when it clearly doesn't ever happen!

[l_j_addiction]

What an uplifting and positive outlook you have.

[daltsy]

People NEED company... that's biological, we are a social creature.
That people want a significant other fills a number of other needs... security, physical, psychological.

Love is not as you describe. Love in itself is the caring for of fellow man, particularly friends, especially a partner. For example, my friendship with you is a form of love, my relationship with Jo, though, is a deep love. Your description of love makes love sound selfish... ultimately love should be selfless.

My advice is that if you find yourself looking to have a relationship, leave sex out of the equation for a while. You might gain a bit of a different perspective.

[camc]

No man is an island. This is true. Some are simply an isthmus...

[daltsy]

LOL

[m0rg0th]

Hmm, oral sex? Is a 69 a double isthmus?