I actually meant, but didn't explain well, that since I lost my virginity to this guy, and his was the first penis I had actually ever seen, I thought penises that were average to good sized were small!
Now I see what you meant. So you wish all guys were closer to the 9 inch size of your ex? I'm guessing that you didn't have any difficulty with his size? no pain? no discomfort? And that, for you, a bigger penis means more pleasure in the long run?
Yeah, about 9 inches. It hurt quite a bit until I told him to be more gentle. I was taking a figure drawing class when I was 18 and the model had a very large one. I think the whole class gasped when he took off his robe. Lol.
Thanks, mudflapgirl72...great to hear from you. I think you mentioned the 9 inch guy once before. if I recall, you said you tried to find ways to work around his size but it became futile and you eventually just gave up?
Was this figure drawing class in high school or college? I can't imagine a guy disrobing like that in my school. You must have grown up in a big, progressive city somewhere.
It's really funny to imagine that the whole class gasped when they saw the male model. I'm trying to imagine just how big he was. If you can recall, do you think he was he larger than your 9 inch ex?
I dated the 9in guy a couple times and gave up. We started seeing each other a year later and it was much better (after I talked to him), but it was only a casual thing, so I eventually met my current husband.
Oh yeah, I was taking classes in San Francisco. I can't remember if it was the summer between my junior and senior years of highschool or the summer after my senior year. I took figure drawing classes both summers. He probably was 9-12 in. flaccid.
Yes, I recall your 9 inch BF. It was not all that pleasant of an experience for you, right?
My high school would never have nude boys posing for art class. It's hard to imagine (no pun intended). And I cannot even imagine a guy being 9-12 inches flaccid. that's not huge, it's enormous. you know I have to ask this next question....did you ever see it erect? and if you did, prey tell how large it got.
Was this young man proud of his manhood? Was it beautiful to behold or just shocking?
Much easier to post without photos, gladiatorxxxx. Thanks for the encouragement. I always appreciate your feedback.
No, no...didn't mean to suggest I am in search of a bigger one to satisfy my fantasies. It's a question that just popped into my head. I don't have a lot of experience with men. I know some women do. And I am curious to learn more. How big do they get? I know the average is around 5-6 inches. But i just got a response from one woman who told me she saw a young man in her art class (posing for the art students) many years ago who was 9-12 inches flaccid. i can hardy believe it. that is enormous. I had no idea they can be that huge.
I am assuming your wife controls the dildo, most of the time, so that the 9 inches does not get out of hand, if you know what I mean?
You control the dildo? Hmm, interesting! You must know your wife very well and she must trust you totally. Haven't you ever rammed her a bit too hard or made it more uncomfrtable than she would like it? I'm surprised that you know how to play her like a violin. BRAVO!!!
My cock is a bit longer than average and I've been told by several women that, although it would be nice if it was a bit thicker, they wouldn't be able to take anything longer. I'm told it's just the right length to hit the cervix without leaving bruises.
Incidentally, I had no idea that it was longer than average until I was in my mid-30s. Seems everyone had assumed that I knew, and hadn't bothered to mention it. Even then it was only mentioned by chance.
I just received a response from a woman who said that 8 inches was too big for her. When you say women have told you they wouldn't be able to take anything longer, I am wondering what size you are? Have you ever measured it?
I think the average size is about 5 inches...at least that is what I heard.
One problem is that there are lots of ways of measuring :-) By some methods I'd probably be about 8 inches, but I prefer to use the method described half way down here, which gives the shortest length of any method. By that one I am 6.7" long (and 4.7" around) which, according to this is rather longer than average (but, of course, that is my measurement :-)
Thanks for the links...very interesting stuff. Yes, I know what you mean. When I try to measure my Bf I never know exactly where to start or how to get an accurate measurement.
And his size is similar to yours. I usually say he is between 6-7 inches because I am not sure how to do the measurement thing. But I have not tried the other system of measurement you used to get a measurement of 8 inches.
From the responses I am getting, women really prefer the average size guys (forget what the media tells us about bigger is better). I just wonder what you've heard from your partners....seems like from what you've said, they don't want anything bigger than 7 inches.
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When you say "it ruined you for quite some time after" what do you mean? Do you mean you suffered some kind of damage, as a result of his size?
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I was taking a figure drawing class when I was 18 and the model had a very large one. I think the whole class gasped when he took off his robe. Lol.
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Was this figure drawing class in high school or college? I can't imagine a guy disrobing like that in my school. You must have grown up in a big, progressive city somewhere.
It's really funny to imagine that the whole class gasped when they saw the male model. I'm trying to imagine just how big he was. If you can recall, do you think he was he larger than your 9 inch ex?
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Oh yeah, I was taking classes in San Francisco. I can't remember if it was the summer between my junior and senior years of highschool or the summer after my senior year. I took figure drawing classes both summers. He probably was 9-12 in. flaccid.
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My high school would never have nude boys posing for art class. It's hard to imagine (no pun intended). And I cannot even imagine a guy being 9-12 inches flaccid. that's not huge, it's enormous. you know I have to ask this next question....did you ever see it erect? and if you did, prey tell how large it got.
Was this young man proud of his manhood? Was it beautiful to behold or just shocking?
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No, no...didn't mean to suggest I am in search of a bigger one to satisfy my fantasies. It's a question that just popped into my head. I don't have a lot of experience with men. I know some women do. And I am curious to learn more. How big do they get? I know the average is around 5-6 inches. But i just got a response from one woman who told me she saw a young man in her art class (posing for the art students) many years ago who was 9-12 inches flaccid. i can hardy believe it. that is enormous. I had no idea they can be that huge.
I am assuming your wife controls the dildo, most of the time, so that the 9 inches does not get out of hand, if you know what I mean?
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What do you consider to be a perfect size?
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Incidentally, I had no idea that it was longer than average until I was in my mid-30s. Seems everyone had assumed that I knew, and hadn't bothered to mention it. Even then it was only mentioned by chance.
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I just received a response from a woman who said that 8 inches was too big for her. When you say women have told you they wouldn't be able to take anything longer, I am wondering what size you are? Have you ever measured it?
I think the average size is about 5 inches...at least that is what I heard.
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And his size is similar to yours. I usually say he is between 6-7 inches because I am not sure how to do the measurement thing. But I have not tried the other system of measurement you used to get a measurement of 8 inches.
From the responses I am getting, women really prefer the average size guys (forget what the media tells us about bigger is better). I just wonder what you've heard from your partners....seems like from what you've said, they don't want anything bigger than 7 inches.
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