Sounds familiar... I once dated this beautiful girl... she had been involved with pot before and when it started again, I disapproved of it but I didnt want to control her life. Over time, pot turned into heavier drugs and thats where I drew the line. I let things be and went my own ways. Last I heard, she lost her job (she was caught stealing), found a job at a stripclub, and is now pregnant and the father is no where to be found. I use to feel like I failed her... but she made those decisions...
"she lost her job (she was caught stealing), found a job at a stripclub, and is now pregnant and the father is no where to be found."
thank God that she isn't that way. I think her mom would totally prevent something like that happening. except for the pregnancy thing. I could see that happening.
but, yeah, dude, I've realized that those were, after all, like you said her decisions, and I just have to move on. it still makes me sad, though, to hear about someone I once cared for so much tripping up so badly in life, you know?
you seem like a cool guy. consider yourself added. ;)
She left a message on my voicemail not too long ago asking for money and help. I almost returned her phone call but I made a few of my own before doing that. Found out that she had been asking for money for a lot of other people to support her and her boyfriends habits. I paced around the phone for over a week before forcing myself to delete it.
oh, no, for shizzle. I am incredibly thankful that I didn't end up with the short end of the stick, so to speak, in terms of who is better off today. I may not be happy with how things got the way they are now, but I'm very glad things turned out the way they did. I just still get a bad feeling when I hear about how terrible she's become, that's all. it's not that I don't want to hear about the awful things she's been doing, it's just that what I want to hear are good things about how she's putting her life back together. and I want those good things to be the truth.
I dunno... I sometimes would have to say that cosmic / karmic justice does exist. I stole Louis's girlfriend from him, and so my girlfriend was stolen from me. I think that was, in essence, only fair. I'm willing to accept that.
and then Jaimie has to, haha, put up with herself, in a way, and how much she has changed. furthermore, she must now deal with a pothead-cheating-loser as a boyfriend. her life sucks major ass. and then Steven will likely have the same thing done to him as was done to me, perhaps even worse because he cheated on a past girlfriend.
does that make sense? I just see the current situation as a great example of kharmic debts being paid, you know?
Ive come to find out that there are people who are afraid when something great comes their way. And I just havent quite figured out why that is. *sighs*
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All ya can do is continue to move on...
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thank God that she isn't that way. I think her mom would totally prevent something like that happening. except for the pregnancy thing. I could see that happening.
but, yeah, dude, I've realized that those were, after all, like you said her decisions, and I just have to move on. it still makes me sad, though, to hear about someone I once cared for so much tripping up so badly in life, you know?
you seem like a cool guy. consider yourself added. ;)
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Thanks, likewise and done.
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p.s. AWESOME, THANK YOU!!!
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there is no justice in these situations, only what you make of it
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and then Jaimie has to, haha, put up with herself, in a way, and how much she has changed. furthermore, she must now deal with a pothead-cheating-loser as a boyfriend. her life sucks major ass. and then Steven will likely have the same thing done to him as was done to me, perhaps even worse because he cheated on a past girlfriend.
does that make sense? I just see the current situation as a great example of kharmic debts being paid, you know?
you get what you pay for, after all.
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Funny, my ex is going down the same spiral and I'm the one who got hurt in the end. Heh.
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funnier still is that, not only are they going down the same spiral, but they're going down it together (albeit with a few others as company)...
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you're not serious, are you?
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