Weird feelings these days...

[specsafety]

I am in a strange place emotionally these days. I am hyperfocused on my daughter's career...she is about to break big in Hollywood, and the focus on her has left my needs in the backseat. I was accused of not tending to my own needs, by a woman who wants more than I can give in the on/off relationship I have with her. This woman is very wealthy

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[starrynytes4me]

I think you have to find a way to balance your time. You have to set some aside for YOU and your GF. Just because your daughter comes first doesn't mean your needs and her needs get no time. I feel like there has to be some boundaries around your daughter. Hollywood diva or not, what time matters most, and what can you drop? You can't always come last forever, nor can an adult relationship. It's just like work/life balance for women.

thanks Lannette

[specsafety]

I always appreciate your insight and wisdom. I do have balance issues with most things(I have an addict's personality) and now, the focus of my attention is Julia. I just hope that I am not doing an irrovacable harm to her by this, and it is true, I am neglecting my life issues. In a way, I think I hyperfocus on different things so I do not have to look at myself. Again, thanks for your insight and the time to think about my issue.

great advice...

[specsafety]

She is an incredible person...I am so glad she is in my life. This rich woman is trying to buy my affection...what a goofball she is--I do really well financially--but she is a bit obsessed. Speaking of obsession...I know I have one going on with you!!!

Re: Also...

[specsafety]

I have probably commented more(with you) now than the whole time on LJ!!!