My job sucks

[spooky_cat_23]

Yesterday was not a good time for me. I got up at 6:30am to go to work right? Well, I show up at work and proceed to try to go into the house that is normally left open so I can get right in, only to be stopped short by the fact that the doors were locked. ALL doors were locked. I called the house from my car, no answer. I left a message and STILL

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[cloudmx]

That moral dilemma isn't the most easily answered.

I guess the real thing here is how much it affects you. Does it affect you to the point where you can't look at the person straight anymore when you're with them and when you're without them, does it plague your every thought?
Or is it easily overlooked and you can function normally with the person like you would on a daily basis?

If it's the former, then I say bring it up. It's important that you two discuss it and be open with each other, or else a relationship can get really weird.
If it's the latter, then leave it.

[spooky_cat_23]

Thanks for the advice :) I have a lot of thinking to do about it :(

[azsunspot161]

somehow bring the subject up in a hypothetical situation...thats the best way for me... or just ask them if they have ever kept any secrets...if they don't mention it then either keep it to yourself until you're in an honest conversation then bring it up to topic

[spooky_cat_23]

Thanks for the advice :)

[spooky_cat_23]

I know :( I still don't know how I am going to deal with the last issue I wrote about, but the other stuff has worked itself out.... (thankfully!!)