So many thoughts flying around my head, I'm not even sure how to start this post. I know I don't update my LJ very often, but oh well. Let's start with it
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I think I missed the part where Andrea cut you loose. But whatever, the jealousy is normal all the way around. The fact that you think Jesse's cool and are also feeling approval towards him and his relationship with Damien is commendible. Most people in your position would not be able to see things that way, especially not so soon (assuming it hasn't been a while) after your breakup. As for Damien being insane... that's not insane, that's normal kid-ness. A crazy-looking Puerto Rican with crazy hair who sounds like he's speaking gibberish is probably a lot like having your own muppet from Sesame Street around for someone Damien's age
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I don't really see it as a 'clean slate', miss i-need-to-use-latin-for-some-reason... :P. For the record, it's been 2 months since we've been apart. LMAO @ muppet from Sesame Street. I guess the thing that bothers me most about it, is Damien possibly forming a bond with Jesse. As a person, I think that bonding is a good thing...as Damien's father, I don't like it. Make sense?
Yeah, it makes sense. Just keep in mind the part where bonding is a good. Also, realize that while he's bonding with someone else, he still knows that you are his dad and he'll never have exactly that kind of bond with anyone else. I'm guessing you don't see him very much or at least not as often as you'd like, but consider this... Morgane sees David maybe every 18 months for a few hours at best. The longest she's ever lived with him was probably about 8 to 10 months and that's when she was a baby. Yet she still has that bond with him that she doesn't have with any other person because he's her dad. Sure, she's got a stronger than average bond with my dad and she is very close to my friend Dave, but they still aren't her dad.
personal expreience...trixxi_starrJuly 1 2005, 20:26:22 UTC
First about the issue with Jesse... I think that it is very good that you find this guy cool enough to be around your son. I am also glad that you aren't upset that she is seeing someone else and that you are somewhat happy for her. I know it is frustrating to know that some other guy is spending so much time with your son. And the only person who can change that is Andrea. This isn't going to b easy between you two. Splitting up with a child is hard no matter how good of friends you end up to be. The jealousy it normal and I feel really bad that you have to go through this. But the only thing you can do is try to talk to her and let her know how you feel and see if there is any way at least for a while that he isn't there until the weekends when you have Damien. I don't know how easy she is to talk to but that is the best way to try to work out some common ground so you are both happy at least for a while
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i am really sorry to hear all these things. you need call me like you said you would just because i don't have YOUURRRR number and i can be your faery godmother.
-pokes rapdily- Sorry to hear things are going a bit crazy for you at the moment. If you need any help with something, let me know, Im still a friend :P
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What in the hell is your icon supposed to be? :P
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Sorry to hear things are going a bit crazy for you at the moment. If you need any help with something, let me know, Im still a friend :P
-Jon
snugglesofdoom at Gmail dot com
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I guess ill start getting on AIM some more :P
-jon
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