People who can fill their own voids, by being so comfortable and so happy being by themselves, are the people who find amazing lovers. You can't have a successful relationship with another person if you're using them to fill some kind of void that your own personality can't fill.. Whether it's stability, not being lonely, or just having someone to screw.. Whether it's intentional or not.. Once that void is gone, they are no longer needed for that moment-- or for the rest of the relationship.
If you can love and accept yourself, you are capable of being loved by someone else.. You can find someone who you care about because of them, not because they're someone you need.. And hopefully, they too will love you for the same reason. If you can love yourself, you deserve to be loved for exactly who you are, in the exact way that you deserve it, in the exact way you want to be loved.
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People who can fill their own voids, by being so comfortable and so happy being by themselves, are the people who find amazing lovers.
You can't have a successful relationship with another person if you're using them to fill some kind of void that your own personality can't fill..
Whether it's stability, not being lonely, or just having someone to screw.. Whether it's intentional or not..
Once that void is gone, they are no longer needed for that moment-- or for the rest of the relationship.
If you can love and accept yourself, you are capable of being loved by someone else.. You can find someone who you care about because of them, not because they're someone you need.. And hopefully, they too will love you for the same reason.
If you can love yourself, you deserve to be loved for exactly who you are, in the exact way that you deserve it, in the exact way you want to be loved.
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