Comments | sunluvinktk: uhg roller coaster ride....

sunluvinktk

uhg roller coaster ride....

Oct 11, 2004 23:39

honestly, i go from so amazingly happy to such the polar opposite so quickly, what the fuck ( Read more... )

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checkplease October 11 2004, 21:15:12 UTC

I've found that the more other people talk to you, the less time you have to listen to yourself.

that is true... sunluvinktk October 12 2004, 10:52:33 UTC

but i've found that the more time you have to listen to yourself, the more you become completely consumed by your thoughts, which in my case wage this constant battle amongst themselves. fuckers. lol

Re: that is true... checkplease October 12 2004, 15:40:40 UTC

Yeah, it's a shitty balancing act which I haven't figured out yet. But I will some day!

Re: that is true... sunluvinktk October 12 2004, 17:15:00 UTC

but you will someday! yay for optimism!

a waiting game stayone October 12 2004, 08:44:00 UTC

that what it seems like, at least. Move up three, get knocked the fuck down by two. Progress it takes time.

Re: a waiting game sunluvinktk October 12 2004, 17:26:41 UTC

what happens when ya move up three and get knocked the fuck down by 4?? just kidding. that is very true though. baby steps are what its all about.

munchkinl2l2 October 12 2004, 11:24:52 UTC

sometimes talking to listening to other people can help you figure out whats going on in your own head.....and when you give advice to other people, try to really listen to what you're saying and follow that yourself.....it's hard, but it's coming out of your mouth so you can definitely do it too. and people are there to listen to you too.....i'm here for ya and i'll always listen if you need to vent or just let your thoughts run lose.....some good ways to figure out who you are is journals, public and private, the type of music you listen to cuz i think people listen to music based on their moods, plus how ur dressed for the day cuz that reflects ur moods too.....there's lots of ways to try to figure out who you are.....you can do it, i have faith in you and you should have a little in yourself cuz you are a beautiful, amazing person. =)

thanks hun! sunluvinktk October 12 2004, 17:25:47 UTC

that is completely true about listening when giving advice... i notice myself doing that all the time, ill be helping someone else do something and realize i need to apply it to myself... its easier to be objective when you arent dealing with your own problems/emotions/etc

you are truly awesome, thank you, and youre amazing and beautiful as well, takes one to know one! i'm here as well if ya ever need to talk.

I'm never alone, I'm alone all the time hurley9351 October 12 2004, 15:44:48 UTC

I completly know where you're coming from...I've often posed that question myself..."How in a place where we are constantly surrounded by people is it possible to feel completly alone" Here's some more food for thought: Ever hear the saying "If you can count your friends on more than one hand they aren't really friends" Think about all the people who are there for you no matter what, even if there's just a few, consider yourself extremly blessed. You ARE loved, by so many. Everyone goes through hard times and little Emo funks!! But it dosn't last forever, and eventually you'll snap out of it and realize that there are people out there who really care, even if they don't tell you all the time. On that note: I love you and miss you and am lost here in o-town without my evil twin!!!! ;-)

Re: I'm never alone, I'm alone all the time sunluvinktk October 12 2004, 17:22:37 UTC

1) amazing song and i quote it all the time and gavin is hott and that line is so true
2) i do know who my true close friends are, here and at home, and i am so thankful for them and love them more than i let them know. i know i can count on them, its just sometimes i need to learn to swallow my pride and depend on them and stop pretending i CAN do it all on my own.
c) i do focus on the negative too much, and i am working on that. i really am fine, just was having a bad night
4) you know you are one of those close few and i love you so much and miss you too, and its good to have my good twin around to balance me out and keep me in line ;o)