Its really good when you write it out like this, I have absolutely no idea why I do the things I do. But if you know why, you can work on it, try to overcome those exact fears you named.
After reading that, I think you've got your head screwed on far better than all those females out there in the stupidly short skirts and far too much make up, trying to attract anything male.
If you're not ready to be with someone, and to be honest it sounds like you're not, then don't be. Whatever you do, don't get involved with someone just because other people think you ought to be with someone by now. It's the worst reason in the world, and the end result is seldom good.
As for changing who you are, or how you look, to fit someone else's idea of what's acceptable, don't even think about it. So what if sticking to who you feel you truly are means it takes you a little longer than some other people to find mister right? The chances are far higher than when you do actually find him, he really WILL be right for you.
Sounds like a bit me. I'll tell you that don't put yourself in a relationship for the wrong reason, you might hurt the other person and yourself as well.
I don't know you enough though to give a advice, just take time and don't judge yourself because you're different from your pretty smart friend and as she is your friend who like to put make up, get dress etc, ask her for some clothe advice. You can be cool and classy at the same time
I was like you, large Tee, sport pants, large jeans I didn't care about how I looked cause I'm not pretty, now in getting older I start to change and try to wear more girly stuff, still Tee but with a V collar ( if you know what I mean ) etc.. Thing like that
Now you have to see for yourself one step at a time.
I believe that they are people you will find their half or just be with someone cause they are more afraid of being alone, and on other hand people who unfortunately won't find their half because of so many reason :/
Thanks! I'm already wearing more girly stuff. Decent stuff to be precise. I've got loads of v-neck and u-neck shirts and nice brown & red & maroon & grey colours. I also wear tights and jeans and jersey dresses and so on. I look female and rather adult (everyone says that) so it's not like I'm running about all sloppy. ;) I even like to wear suits goes it looks fancy and suits me =)
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After reading that, I think you've got your head screwed on far better than all those females out there in the stupidly short skirts and far too much make up, trying to attract anything male.
If you're not ready to be with someone, and to be honest it sounds like you're not, then don't be. Whatever you do, don't get involved with someone just because other people think you ought to be with someone by now. It's the worst reason in the world, and the end result is seldom good.
As for changing who you are, or how you look, to fit someone else's idea of what's acceptable, don't even think about it. So what if sticking to who you feel you truly are means it takes you a little longer than some other people to find mister right? The chances are far higher than when you do actually find him, he really WILL be right for you.
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I don't know you enough though to give a advice, just take time and don't judge yourself because you're different from your pretty smart friend and as she is your friend who like to put make up, get dress etc, ask her for some clothe advice. You can be cool and classy at the same time
I was like you, large Tee, sport pants, large jeans I didn't care about how I looked cause I'm not pretty, now in getting older I start to change and try to wear more girly stuff, still Tee but with a V collar ( if you know what I mean ) etc.. Thing like that
Now you have to see for yourself one step at a time.
I believe that they are people you will find their half or just be with someone cause they are more afraid of being alone, and on other hand people who unfortunately won't find their half because of so many reason :/
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I'm already wearing more girly stuff. Decent stuff to be precise. I've got loads of v-neck and u-neck shirts and nice brown & red & maroon & grey colours. I also wear tights and jeans and jersey dresses and so on. I look female and rather adult (everyone says that) so it's not like I'm running about all sloppy. ;) I even like to wear suits goes it looks fancy and suits me =)
Thanks for the lovely advice and words though =)
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