Blech I'm a girl and I fully agree. Babies are ugly, messy, and expensive. Kids are even worse because they're cute for a few years and then they hate you until they're 30, and then they probably just blame you for screwing them up. Not to mention say good bye to friends, all your free time, all your money, and hobbies lol. I can NOT figure out how this is worth it. DO NOT WANT.
It really freaks me out too how many people our age (and even starting a few years back!!) are already married and settling down with (sometimes multiple!!) kids. I can't help but think, a little condescendingly though I don't mean to, wow dude. What happened to all the ambitions you used to have that were a lot bigger than working 40 hours a week behind a desk and driving your kids to soccer practice in your SUV, you know? I guess that makes some people happy enough, and I'm glad for them I suppose, but I can't help but find it a bit depressing, personally.
Yeah. I find it strange that I know more old classmates w/ children then the ones that don't. Then again... the two or three that don't are the ones I still think are the intelligent ones.
I also don't give them more than a pair of years before that idea changes. :( Need more single friends....
Is that icon the butler dude from Kuroshitsuji? (Pardon if I butchered that name) Sebastian I think his name were?
Nope, it's Minato (or "main character") from Persona 3. THIS is Sebastian 8D (I just recently watched like pretty much ALL of Kuroshitsuji and the second season and read the manga. Insanity lol)
Also yeah, two of my room mates are married and want kids in the next three years. I'm happy for them and all but oh god why. Single friends and friends who don't WANT kids are great. Seriously. Besides, all my friends that HAVE had kids aren't really my friends anymore. They always are like "oh we'll still hang out" but no. It's pretty much all over lol.
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It really freaks me out too how many people our age (and even starting a few years back!!) are already married and settling down with (sometimes multiple!!) kids. I can't help but think, a little condescendingly though I don't mean to, wow dude. What happened to all the ambitions you used to have that were a lot bigger than working 40 hours a week behind a desk and driving your kids to soccer practice in your SUV, you know? I guess that makes some people happy enough, and I'm glad for them I suppose, but I can't help but find it a bit depressing, personally.
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I also don't give them more than a pair of years before that idea changes.
:( Need more single friends....
Is that icon the butler dude from Kuroshitsuji? (Pardon if I butchered that name) Sebastian I think his name were?
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Also yeah, two of my room mates are married and want kids in the next three years. I'm happy for them and all but oh god why. Single friends and friends who don't WANT kids are great. Seriously. Besides, all my friends that HAVE had kids aren't really my friends anymore. They always are like "oh we'll still hang out" but no. It's pretty much all over lol.
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