I really doubt that my one and only soulmate is out there right now waiting for me.

[sutariyubi]

Comments

[tenku_chan]

I'm reading. Not sure I agree with the concept of soul mates, to be perfectly honest, because its always seemed like something unattainable. Take my current relationship, for example. I love my boyfriend to death, and all signs are pointing to us being married someday. But I don't think I'd call him my soul mate. I have a hard time believing that a relationship that perfect and pure exists, and I think people that strive for something like that are just setting themselves up for disappointment when it turns out that even when you love someone more than anything else, you have your differences. You won't always see eye to eye, you won't love or hate all the same things, but as long as you make each other happy (and aren't abusive or any of that other BS) shouldn't that be enough

[sutariyubi]

No offense taken at all! I used the word "soulmate" a bit loosely in my idea, but it's always bothered me to hear people say "there's someone out there for everyone" (mostly because I think that's very much an oversimplification and can lead to more depression overall, as there's some level of limitation--"someone," to me, feels like "one person