i've lost 4 pounds since i've been home.

[sweetsabine]

i want to be inspired. more importantly, i want to inspire myself. im sick of relying on other people to make me happy. i've done that for far too long and now i'm slowly realizing, maybe for the first time ever, that i am perfectly capable of making myself happy. i don't need a boy, or anyone for that matter, to make me happy i can do it myself.

Comments

[pope_corky_ix]

You need to be able to like yourself and make yourself happy before you can be in a relationship that will be meaningful. Reason? A good relationship is all about sharing and improving yourselves (both), so you need to go into it with something of yourself to share that makes you happy and, most importantly, is genuinely you. Otherwise, what you give won't make that other person feel loved.

So in short, I'm glad you're doing this, because it will probably have the double effect of making your future relationships better, and you won't feel like it's so one-sided. Good luck Kelly!

[sweetsabine]

but noah...you missed the point! i'm not "doing this" in order to have better relationships in the future. i'm not even thinking about relationships because i hate them and they never work and i don't want to share myself with anyone. i just want to be me again. i mean thanks for the relationship advice but i dont see myself getting involved in another one of those messes until i'm 30. lol

[pope_corky_ix]

haha, I know. I'm just saying, added benefit. Sorry if that didn't come across.

[one_true_eaglie]

"i'm not even thinking about relationships because i hate them and they never work and i don't want to share myself with anyone."

See! That's the spirit!