the death of my Pupup

[swirled_red]

I can't say I'm surprised...and yet in the same breath I am about to cry because i am so disappointed. If you don't already know, I have an astranged grandfather who as of recent years has been trying to reconnect with his daughter (my mom) and his two sons. he remarried after my Grandmother died and and was rejected his children to be with her

Comments

[poisonrational]

Is there any way that you can have him in your life, even though everyone else has disowned him?

[swirled_red]

i wouldn't want him in my life, he has regected his entire family to be with MaryEllen's family. it's a huge insult that falls in my lap as well as my other relatives. and even more so for the sake of my mother and the respect/love i have for her, i would never recognize him as my grandfather let alone try to have him in my life.

[poisonrational]

That's what I needed to hear. I wasn't sure where you stood on it since you seemed upset at the loss of him as your grandfather and had said "I think in my head i had always hoped that I would one day go and see him and hug him and he would remember who i was and things would be right..."

It's unfortunate that he continues to make such foolish decisions.

[swirled_red]

I always hoped* ya know? and it upsets me, but he's just as much dead to me as he is to my mom. hey, you gunna be around during Thanksgiving time?