What say you

[tchini]

What is the first step to falling in love?

1.) Making yourself capable to fall in love.

2.) Finding someone who you would fall in love with.

3.) Destiny (it's out of your control)

4.) All of the above....

Comments

[i_am_the_owl]

Destiny = fate + free will, so that's out.

"Finding someone" implies that you're actively looking for someone certain; that you have a specific set of standards, so that's pretty naive.

Coercing yourself into doing something ensures that you're not going to stick with it, so that's just silly.

[tchini]

For a long time I probably would have choosen number 1 because I thought It was by choice not self-minipulation. Is there not a defined line between Coercing one self and choosing to love someone?

[i_am_the_owl]

Definition is relative.

[tchini]

ergo, could we say:

definite = stability = happiness; is a false statment? doesn't our world toss those around quit a bit, not to mention our multipule mediums of entertainment? Aren't we in such a ravage quest to for security...well then I guess this poll is relative one could look at it as a quest for security in my romantic life...LOL

[tchini]

haven't I arrived at this conclusion before?