WTF

[tchkita]

So my sister got married today. Apparantly. I didn't witness this event, seeing as how she phoned me up at work today to inform me of it already having occurred. They just woke up today, looked at each other, and said "Neither of us work today, let's go get married!", and then did so. I was the 3rd one to find out in our family. My brother was

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[funkmesexyfool]

Aw, sweetie, don't be mad. I know you wanted to be there, but I'm sure she didn't do it to hurt you. She probably just thought it would be romantic to do as a spur of the moment thing. And really, it is kind of romantic, don't you think?

[tchkita]

Actually it's the years of insults and anger that I put up with to not alienate her (she hates her life, and is in serious debt, and is angry that the world is making her suffer, but she won't do anything to change it, the world has to change to meet her demands), and her repeated promises that no matter what, even if she eloped, she wanted me to be there and be a part of it. And it's the realization that I'm nothing to her but an accessory to her life, to be included whenever it suits her, and not any other time.

That and the fact that she told my pot-head brother who was never that close to her before me.

I am happy for her, I'm just really hurt that after everything, I wasn't good enough to include in that.

[tinsel666]

she probably can't get past her giddiness at this point to see that her spur-of-the-moment marriage robbed her family of taking part in a special occasion. i'm sure you're not the only one peeved.

[tchkita]

She's kind-of on the outs with my family, mainly because of Adam, but also due to other things. But my mom was also expecting to be a part of her wedding. She's been trying hard to reach a reconciliation with the two of them, but even though Adam's sounding willing, Lisa wants none of it (she still hasn't forgiven our mom for expecting her at the age of 26 to have a job and pay rent of only $300 a month for room and board instead of letting her stay home all day and giving her large amounts of money to support her partying lifestyle). I haven't been able to get ahold of my mom, but I know she'll be hurt too. I'm trying not to be bitter about this, but Lisa makes it really hard.

[the_schauff]

I am full of either support or rage, whichever is most helpful

[vernlicious]

That was a jerk move for jerks. I have a friend who's sister did the same thing to him.

Don't take it personally, because it wasn't. I mean, do you think she even thought how it would effect anyone?

Spend the money you saved on a horrible dress on something you actually want, and try to think fo your sister as some crazy character on a bad sitcom. Oh that lisa! *canned laughter*

[psyche666]

fucked up! i'm sorry, sweetie.