why is it that people my age are so confusing?? I don't get it, and I don't get them. Well I guess I don't get a lot of things then do I. Brutal
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good question! when i figure that one out, i'll give ya a call!!!! i'm very confuzzled right now, too. call me tonight (Monday) and i'll give ya the low down. but i'm right there w/ ya sista! i don't understand them sometimes either!!! and let's not get started on how i view gals because frankly, i don't really hang out w/ them and understand them at all!! even though i am one! haha so at least guys are a little bit easier to comprehend.....this is me babbling..... .............and i'm out!
Re: oh guys.....thefrew88May 10 2004, 08:38:49 UTC
hey babbling is ok...lol ya i totally agree with the girls thing, i just don't go there either frankly. I will all you tonight for sure, i'm not busy tonight, and hopefully my sister won't call. But I will call tonight after7 or so. and we will talk :) I miss ya ciao
Not to be left out . .saxaphoolMay 10 2004, 07:04:35 UTC
Ya . . i agree . . we are a confusing bunch of dudes . . .But don't let it be said that the female population can't also have their confusing times!! I think we can both be equally confusing!!
Re: Not to be left out . .thefrew88May 10 2004, 08:37:10 UTC
yes i definitely agree there! its just the oppostie sex is very much confusing I guess, in very many ways. But oh yes, i agree totally, girls are super confusing as well!
I think the balance of the universe would be seriously upset if we were able to understand the opposite sex/those whom we have romantic interest in. I personally think that if we stopped playing games and were just upfront about everything then it would be a much simpler game of seduction, interaction, etc. But where's the fun in that? I'll keep some confusion for a little excitement, but I... I lead a boring life.
well I can't say my life is all that exciting, cuz its definitely not. Very boring here too. Ya the balance would be upset i agree, but sometimes its just so rusterating you know. But then its all worth it of course. Being upfront is the best thing, just saying what needs to be said or what they want to say etc...and not dance around subjects. But I guess thats part of the problem the continuous dance around topics hoping we won't ask about it anymore or that we became uninterested or something...oh well, a continuous cycle that always ends up for the better, and of course worth it in the end.
I think I'm sick of the bullshit too. I mean, I'd be FULLY lying through my teeth if I said that I like the heartache and the crap and flirting (well, I like flirting, but that's just my nature). I'm still waiting for it to be worth it in the end.
Yep I'd be lying as well. And flirting is ok, as long as it is done with restrictions, or so i think anyways. Flirting has to have restictions, like if you flirt with someone but don't want anytihg out of it, or do, there should be differences in the flirting, but unfortunately there is not, and then it makes it all the more confusing cuz guys flirt with you and act like they interezted when really they aren't at all, they were just flirting, or the other way around they flirt but dont' act like they are interested when really they are.
i guess some people are afraid of opening up everything about themselves. they fear that if the wrong thing is said, then they lose everything they care about and are left alone...nobody wants to be alone, but sometimes things force them to be, and when they find someone, they don't want to lose them by scaring them with their past. guys are just confusing in particular because deep down, we all know that the jock who gets all the sex really isn't that good a person to be, and we spend our youth believing that and when we realize we can't be (or that we realize it's wrong...),then we feel bad about how we acted and try to act like nothing bad happened, our records were clean so that any future love interest can have substance and meaning, not just get-laid-quick schemes. guys keep a lot of pent-up sorrow about bthings like this, and i guess we're too childish to let it out...least that's how i see it
ok thats fair, and sometimes some things don't need to be said, i guess it depends on how you feel about the person u are with, how close you are with the other person, how the relationship is etc etc... Because you wouldn't open up totally to someone you were with if you were only with them fro aweek or so would you?? I don't really think so, you have to build that trust and comfort level before you start talking to anyone on either side. The comfort level and trust is what helps a person to talk about deep things in their past and all. Not everything has to be talked about, no one has to know everything if you dont' want them to. But when u do get close to someone they do want to know about u and know more about u and all...and you would want to know more about them. Thats how i see that anywayz
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you're right as usual...i care about you so much and i know we will be together for a long while, and you have a right to know about who i was before you met me...before i tried to reinvent myself into a failed shell of someone trying to fit into a world he doesn't understand. the world is opening up to me more, and i see how things work better than i did before, and i know that everything has a consequence and one must deal withthem in turn. i'm the result of several mistakes and improbabilities...i'm lucky to exist...so i should exist...
Yes you should exist, of course you should exist. And you do, and there is a damn good reason, and you will find it eventually, I promise.
You are not a mistake and everyone makes mistake in their lives. No one can honestly say they never made a mistake in their life. That wouldn't be true frankly.You are not a result of mistakes and imporbabilites...thats not true and not very fair to yourself at all. You are not a mistake.
No one understands the world around them, and those who think they do will be sadly mistaken. Its natural that you don't understand the world and therefore feel liuke you don't fit in and don't. I dind't fit in at all, ever. I'm glad the world is opening up to you, it should be. You aer right everything does have a consequence, unfortunately, and we all must deal with ther consequiences we are dealt.
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when i figure that one out, i'll give ya a call!!!!
i'm very confuzzled right now, too. call me tonight (Monday) and i'll give ya the low down.
but i'm right there w/ ya sista! i don't understand them sometimes either!!! and let's not get started on how i view gals because frankly, i don't really hang out w/ them and understand them at all!! even though i am one! haha so at least guys are a little bit easier to comprehend.....this is me babbling.....
.............and i'm out!
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I personally think that if we stopped playing games and were just upfront about everything then it would be a much simpler game of seduction, interaction, etc.
But where's the fun in that? I'll keep some confusion for a little excitement, but I... I lead a boring life.
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Ya the balance would be upset i agree, but sometimes its just so rusterating you know. But then its all worth it of course.
Being upfront is the best thing, just saying what needs to be said or what they want to say etc...and not dance around subjects. But I guess thats part of the problem the continuous dance around topics hoping we won't ask about it anymore or that we became uninterested or something...oh well, a continuous cycle that always ends up for the better, and of course worth it in the end.
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guys are just confusing in particular because deep down, we all know that the jock who gets all the sex really isn't that good a person to be, and we spend our youth believing that and when we realize we can't be (or that we realize it's wrong...),then we feel bad about how we acted and try to act like nothing bad happened, our records were clean so that any future love interest can have substance and meaning, not just get-laid-quick schemes. guys keep a lot of pent-up sorrow about bthings like this, and i guess we're too childish to let it out...least that's how i see it
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You are not a mistake and everyone makes mistake in their lives. No one can honestly say they never made a mistake in their life. That wouldn't be true frankly.You are not a result of mistakes and imporbabilites...thats not true and not very fair to yourself at all. You are not a mistake.
No one understands the world around them, and those who think they do will be sadly mistaken. Its natural that you don't understand the world and therefore feel liuke you don't fit in and don't. I dind't fit in at all, ever. I'm glad the world is opening up to you, it should be. You aer right everything does have a consequence, unfortunately, and we all must deal with ther consequiences we are dealt.
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