Derp derp...

[themacademianut]

I'm not sure where I should post my thoughts now that I have Facebook, Twitter, and DA. I had a Xanga and a Blogger at one point, but alas... bleh. I think most of my super personal/don't want work to read entries are most appropriate here. Limited people pay attention and I can just throw down with whatever. It's actually kind of cool... it's a "

Comments

[eeveelover]

Regarding the open relationship thing... it's definitely something you both have to be 100% okay with. Any bit of doubt could careen your relationship into unsavory territory. I've read a lot about how to have an open relationship and what it entails, but of course I don't REALLY know too much because I've never had one. I know enough about myself that I could just never be okay with it in regards to my partner being sexual with anyone else but me. Also, because I have cheated once and experienced the worst guilt of my life, I don't think I could ever be 100% okay with me being intimate with anyone else even WITH my partner's permission. It just comes down to really knowing how you would take the experience, and same with your partner

[themacademianut]

Oh man! I'm totally rooting for you to get something in Central Kitsap! (I would also totally be up for oboe coaching! lol) But thank you so much for the helpful advice. It is an odd situation and there has to be some certainty on both sides. I was sort of in the same set up; I want to explore, he's supportive, but he also has no interest in anyone else... so yeah... would totally feel guilty >_< It's also good to know that a counselor helped you out within a handful of sessions... that gives me some hope that I can sort all this noggin stuff out with very little expense... and no medication! Stay classy lady and thank you so much again for the insightful reply (:

[eeveelover]

I didn't even score an interview for CK- bummer! They were looking for more experienced applicants. Sign of the times! **sigh** BUT! I am waiting on Nooksack SD to call for interviews (I have been HOUNDING them with phone calls every day) and it's near Bellingham, so we'll see where life takes me!

Yeah I started seeing a counselor about 4 months after Luke and I split. By the time I started counseling I had casually slept with 2 guys while simultaneously dealing with the busiest school year of my life. I didn't let myself get over Luke and I had also developed serious self confidence issues caused by the first asshole I slept with. I was not in a good place psychologically... It was just super helpful to talk to someone who didn't know the situation and who just let me ramble on and at times offer helpful insights and alternative perspectives. Best thing I could have done for myself.

I miss you guys a lot. I haven't been back to PO in months it seems.