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Jul 11, 2004 15:45

my sister found Ed's journal, complete with profile about sexual interests.

she thinks we're disgusting. she thinks he's a "dirty old man."

so that makes 2 members of my family that hate him and think that he's immoral and evil...

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HOW??? darkphuque July 11 2004, 12:58:19 UTC
I even changed the name...
How could she know that it was me?

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Re: HOW??? danthered July 11 2004, 14:08:14 UTC
Well, Ed:

"You can find me on iChat and AIM as sfkuma. I have an active Live Journal account under the user handle Darkphuque"

"I am in a long distance, open relationship. Jeff’s not employed, but a student at U of Wisc./Madison, and in process of becoming educated Obviously we are in an open, long distance relationship."

"I tend to define myself as mostly top, but an obedient boy can fuck me until the cows come home. Into: Vanilla to kink, leather, B&D, Water sports, Cock & Ball Bondage, sounds, catheters, dildoes, fisting, role playing of all sorts, outdoor play Extended scenes, Lite/moderate SM. Always Looking for: Cubs/Boys/Otters. 20-45 yrs old, small to medium build. Must be kinky/versatile and obedient....and I have found one. His name is Jeff. Prefer boys I am really looking for play boys/fuck buddies. I don’t believe in long distance relationships, with anyone other than Jeff. I am not opposed to the use of herbal/recreational pharmaceuticals."

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Re: HOW??? darkphuque July 11 2004, 14:56:37 UTC
Obviously...but she would have to know that *I* nwas on LJ...she didn't.
She got to the journal through a google search under my name before Jeff asked me to make appropriate changes.

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bitterlawngnome July 11 2004, 13:50:28 UTC
Perhaps it would be prudent for both of you to refrain from explicit sexual content in your profiles & blogs?

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danthered July 11 2004, 14:01:58 UTC
But, sweetie, Ed is a dirty old man. That's one of the reasons why you love him, yeanay? :-)

You don't mention how your sister found Ed's journal. Was it because she knew about your journal? If so, how'd that happen? My sister and my mother don't know my journal exists, and I have taken the initiative to make sure the odds remain extremely slim that they ever will. I have also taken sensible precautions such that even if they should discover my journal, there will be essentially no damage ( ... )

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barak July 11 2004, 16:22:53 UTC
Dan has some good advice here. My best advice would be to make no apologies for loving a dirty old man.

Also remember that family can be very notoriously overprotective. Ever since my parents died, my sister has had a tendency to treat me like I'm 13 every once a while, and I've had to draw the line and make it clear that I can appreciate the sentiment behind her behavior, but she needs to back off and let me live my own life. If it helps, both she and my best friends absolutely hated two of my boyfriends. I think part of growing up in a relationship involves learning to stick with who is important to you even everyone around you disapproves - even vocally.

Tell your sister that you would appreciate if she didn't shoot off her mouth if she is going to be so judgemental. If its your life- you need to live it because she can't possibly agree with every choice you make or people you date and so on.

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theotherqpc July 11 2004, 20:06:49 UTC
she found his journal thru google. when she asked for his name, i suspected that's what she'd do, so i asked Ed to change his profile's name. she found him before google updated.

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danthered July 11 2004, 20:17:52 UTC
A truthful and considerably more prudent response to "What's his name" might've been "Ed."

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zocalo December 25 2005, 06:51:42 UTC
where's his profile? i'm curious :)

you have al1835 on your friends list, i read his blog sometimes too.

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theotherqpc December 25 2005, 06:59:10 UTC
Ed? he's darkphuque

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zocalo December 25 2005, 07:29:40 UTC
theotherqpc December 25 2005, 07:35:08 UTC
no, no, i meant the one about whose profile you inquired ;)

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