So I have little confession. I'm a bit nervous about going on vacation with my husband. There. I've said it. It's been jumping around in my head for a couple of days. And what I'm worried about is the sex. Which sounds strange. And I know I'm totally overthinking things, but it's there. If I don't give words to what's in my head, then I can't get ( Read more... )

So after my post the other day on underpinnings, I decided I need to make an appointment and go shopping for a new bra. Let me tell you, to walk into a store that has soooo many large sized bras made me a bit giddy. Bras in colors and patterns you actually want to wear. Not just the boring beige and black. There were pretty ones, plain ones, saucy ( Read more... )

This arrived in my messenger today from my writer, guide and friend Timuri. I wanted to save it here so I can remember it.

A distant voice calls to me
Like hearing rain on the pains
My muse reaches out and the fire ignites
It is a gentle wind blowing across deep embers
But the spark is real and I must heed the call
Free my voice
Free my spirit
Free my ( Read more... )

You know when you meet someone  you want to date and you have that excitement in the pit of your stomach, when just the thought of them fills your mind and makes you smile? It's been like that around our home lately.

Passionate kisses in the hallway when YMV isn't around. The sexy smacks and pinches in the hallway as we pass. Quick make-out ( Read more... )

My last post here was in 2007. That's crazy. It's been sixteen years since I posted in here last. It almost feels like confession. Hello, my name is thevixon, it's been sixteen years since my last posting.

During those sixteen years, so many things have changed. I had  relationships that didn't work out until I met the loves of my life, my husband ( Read more... )

Will this work?

HEE! I finally bought a pleasure chest for myself. Granted, it needs to have some new fabric put on it because in it's past life it was a sewing box/drawer thingie and in it's new life, it needs a deep red patterned velvet on top. But it makes me giggle in glee. I've wanted to find something that would work for so long. And the thing is, it's nice ( Read more... )

There was an interesting conversation as Zeit and I got together over dinner thhe other night and talked. Somehow we got on the topic of sex, relationships and all. I told her about the year of the Vixon and she then brought up the topic of poly relationships and how she wasn't sure how they could ever work? Now, coming from the background that I ( Read more... )