You could have very well been in love with that person, they just might not have had the same feeling as you did. No one ever said that love has to be returned. Even if this person said that they did, they lied to you about who they actually were they could have been lying about thier feelings.
Speaking from personal expiernce you can definately still love "the ugly truth" that the person is. This boy will always have a place in my heart and every boy will be compared to him in some way or another. It doesn't matter that he was a jerk and hid himself from me. I don't think if you are really in love with someone that those feeling will ever go away. You can love many people in your life but actually being in love is something that only happens once.
i think you could be in love with the persona they gave you but you can't say you were in love with that person because it wasn't really them. it was what they were portraying themselves as. and to you it was true love but i don't think it can be to them because if you can't be your true self around someone then you can't love them the way they love you. you first of all have to be real to feel a real emotion in my opinion.
sorry mine doesn't make as much sense as everyone elses. but i tried.
Infatuated. Physical attraction. You can say what you feel and think but you could always be decieving yourself.
Not at all. Yes. Nah, masks are usually near the opposite of a true person's identity. [Most of the time the person doesn't even know their true identity.] The person feeds off what you give until you stop. You'd pretty much be loving yourself. You're only decieving yourself. Molding your mind to think what it wants to in order for it to feel accepted...satisfied.
for some reason that just made so much sense. i think most people throw around love. but who are other people to define what love is. it differs from person to person. so sure anyone can be in love. but not everyone can be connected truly and have the exact same feeling for another person.
went on way too long, especially for a stranger.lucybelleMay 28 2004, 12:54:53 UTC
"If you found out that this person you were completely infatuated and in love with wasnt really the person you thought you knew; was that love true?"-------- love is like "freedom," a really great intangable thing that can never be the same to any two people. we all experience it in a way unique to ourselves, so when we look back there is no clear answer. that love is based on a feeling, and feelings are difficult to recreate. if the feelings from the past can't be re-experienced, it's hard to analize and test their worth
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Re: went on way too long, especially for a stranger.waiting4berlinJune 12 2004, 02:17:29 UTC
"i grew older and fell "in love" with a person who presented themselves to be something they were not. now i get it."
i am the person you met the person that you fell "in love" with. i am not what i presented myself to be the last few weeks that you and i were together
im sorry if you think thats who i am im sorry for everything
im sorry i've displayed this publicly but i miss you so much the real you
im not trying to save anything i just want you to know that i am the same person you met. people go through things and it may be hard to endure them. if you wait out the storm the sun will come again. but im ok with not being with you i just want gods will to be done. i dont know what to say
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Speaking from personal expiernce you can definately still love "the ugly truth" that the person is. This boy will always have a place in my heart and every boy will be compared to him in some way or another. It doesn't matter that he was a jerk and hid himself from me. I don't think if you are really in love with someone that those feeling will ever go away. You can love many people in your life but actually being in love is something that only happens once.
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sorry mine doesn't make as much sense as everyone elses. but i tried.
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You can say what you feel and think but you could always be decieving yourself.
Not at all. Yes.
Nah, masks are usually near the opposite of a true person's identity. [Most of the time the person doesn't even know their true identity.]
The person feeds off what you give until you stop.
You'd pretty much be loving yourself.
You're only decieving yourself. Molding your mind to think what it wants to in order for it to feel accepted...satisfied.
The mind is a powerful thing.
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I could have typed more, but I'm sure it would have turned into a book.
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i think most people throw around love.
but who are other people to define what love is.
it differs from person to person.
so sure anyone can be in love.
but not everyone can be connected truly and have the exact same feeling for another person.
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i am the person you met the person that you fell "in love" with. i am not what i presented myself to be the last few weeks that you and i were together
im sorry if you think thats who i am im sorry for everything
im sorry i've displayed this publicly but i miss you so much the real you
im not trying to save anything i just want you to know that i am the same person you met. people go through things and it may be hard to endure them. if you wait out the storm the sun will come again. but im ok with not being with you i just want gods will to be done. i dont know what to say
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