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[throbthrob]

Why don't boys give a shit about anything? Men, help me out here. Am I missing something? Why are most of them only concerned with themselves? Or unwilling to admit they are wrong or even say sorry?

In other news, I got a Nintendo Wii, so I got that going for me. LOL.

Working while hungover is really not a good idea.

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[hauntedhated]

i am always wrong so i must now be a guy. starters...sorry other guys but, men suck huge amounts of ass!! i have a wii also, kinda got left at my house and the owner hasn't really contacted me for it. but yeah screw guys let us girls go out and just dance!!! guys are just selfish and probably think that what they have will never leave no matter how bad they treat it.

[throbthrob]

Yeah. It just frustrates me when people can't own up, you know? Or at least say they're sorry.

What's even funnier is that a few of my guy friends have said pretty much the same thing you just said to me. So why are my guy friends aware of it, and the one i'm dating isn't? Makes no sense.

Yeah the Wii is cool. Haven't really had time to play it yet but I love it.

I hope you can make it on Friday....? Maybe? It should be fun.

[hauntedhated]

yeah i have played the mario galaxy and the resident evil. it is so cool. and i'm gonna try to make it on friday i just gotta do some x-mas shopping for alyssa cause that is the only day that she won't be with me. she keeps tryin to find out what i'm getting her. it is funny cause it is drivin her crazy. lol

[throbthrob]

Awww that's awesome. I'm glad things are going well with you and your girl! Things would be fine with me if boys weren't so goddamned frustrating sometimes... but what are you gonna do?

I'm excited about the birffday stuff. Trust me, it'll be awesome! And even more so if you show up!

[blorch]

I've always had real trouble with empathy, but that's just because I'm a damaged individual. I've got no problems telling people this up front, though, so I can't comment on the whole pride thing.

[throbthrob]

Yeah... And you're too smart to ever be wrong either :)

TWO DAYS TILL YOU COME BACK!!!!!!!! WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[hauntedhated]

stop being a jerk matt...hehehe, you gonna drink with me! hell yeah you are, whiskey it is!

[mrtroll]

The most common problem that I've seen tends to be that a lot of guys start out a relationship with the resigned attitude that they should take at least some blame for anything that goes wrong. As time goes on, that urge goes away and there's often even some overcompensation. As in the guy comes to think that since he took the heat willingly in the past, it should buy credit towards future fuckups. Also possible is that the guy genuinely doesn't believe that he's done something wrong, in which case the desire for an apology just for the sake of getting an apology rather than any meaning being behind it is a problem in and of itself. All that said, we males are stupid, stupid creatures much of the time and I believe that to be the source of most of the general assholery, though I do personally tend to ascribe a lot of my tendencies to the same sort of thing Matt already mentioned.

[mrtroll]

Wow. Should have hit enter a couple times in there. That's annoying to read!

[throbthrob]

Yeah but I'm not expecting an apology so much as I would like certain people to understand that they did something that upset another human being and that they may possibly be in the wrong.

Also, I don't think that that's a good attitude to have- the whole credit toward future fuckups. That just makes no sense to me. Why should they assume blame when it isn't there? To gather points for later? It's as if they know they're gonna fuckup down the line. What a defeatist attitude.

The only thing I know for sure is that as time goes on, we are less and less accepting of each others' behavior. I don't know why, but it's a fact that in the honeymoon stage, we tend to put our blinders on. And as time goes on, the things we used to find endearing about each other just become irritating.

I'm not saying women aren't crazy. Women ARE crazy. But maybe it's men that are driving us to that.

[mrtroll]

And I'm not trying to say that the idea of Fuckup Credit is a valid or acceptable one. I despise it, honestly, since it is the same thing as when a girl brings up a completely unrelated past argument as a point against me months later. It all goes down the same spiral. Just trying to make observations.

[fluttergirl]

i don't know about the boy issue, because i feel your frustration. i mean, christ, what is so wrong with saying i'm sorry?

BUT you got a wii and eff boys. who needs 'em. lol.

[throbthrob]

EXACTLY! Hahahahaha.

My friend said this to me recently, "Relationships come and go, but Mario will always be there for you."