Work can be such a bitch huh? And kudos to your statement man. Being in a relationship is nice but if you don't need it then you don't need it. I find it strange that people try to justify themselves through the existance of someone else in their life. I've been single all my life and I'm totally happy. Hey we should form a group called the Lonely Aftermathers! God that reminds me of something from Initial D. XD
Im already member'ed as a Sexually Frustrated Brigade; but thats been debunk for ages since the maker probably got more booty than i ever imagined by now.
After having the screw up in my life regarding women. I can say honestly that I don't mind being alone much at all.... less complicated. I got enough complications myself.
Though work being diffcult, I feel bad for you man. I mean I'm not allowed to go into specifics on my job but I don't think its that bad. I mean they at least let me delcare what I do.
(Okay before I get talking let me say that I am completely sober right now. It's too fucking hot for alcohol today).
I'm a member of the SFB and I'm IN a relationship--talk about a debacle!!
I see a lot of myself in your post and if I have anything to add about the idea of being alone, it's this: based on my experiences the past few months, it becomes less about wanting to be alone and more about learning to adapt because you're always LEFT alone. I couldn't get my SO to talk to me or do activities with me, so I could either feel hurt about it or just do my activity on my own. Going to a movie alone or a museum alone suck ass, but it beats sitting idle.
The problem I run into now is that I've become so efficient at being self-sufficient that I'm not sure how I'm going to adapt when I DO start dating again. When I figure that one out I'll let you know.
The difference is whether or not I'll remember posting, lol. Actually I bring up my sobriety as an indication that I'm actually THINKING while I post, which I don't always do when I've had a few. =p
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Though work being diffcult, I feel bad for you man. I mean I'm not allowed to go into specifics on my job but I don't think its that bad. I mean they at least let me delcare what I do.
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I'm a member of the SFB and I'm IN a relationship--talk about a debacle!!
I see a lot of myself in your post and if I have anything to add about the idea of being alone, it's this: based on my experiences the past few months, it becomes less about wanting to be alone and more about learning to adapt because you're always LEFT alone. I couldn't get my SO to talk to me or do activities with me, so I could either feel hurt about it or just do my activity on my own. Going to a movie alone or a museum alone suck ass, but it beats sitting idle.
The problem I run into now is that I've become so efficient at being self-sufficient that I'm not sure how I'm going to adapt when I DO start dating again. When I figure that one out I'll let you know.
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