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[tinkerbellrox]

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[tiny_dancer54]

i really don't know what to say to you at this point kayleigh. tom and dan are not the same person and tom would never break my heart like dan did. you need to understand that. at the same time, i really do understand where you are coming from. everyone has experience with heartbreak kayleigh, not just me. i dated one person and they broke up with me. it happens to everyone. i am going to talk to tom because i do respect everything you say and tell me and i am not going to disreguard it. i just wish you could be happy for me because i am in the best relationship i have ever been in, instead of telling me i need to prepare myself for breakup. i don't really want to think about that kind of stuff right now. and kayleigh, i do appreciate the fact that you care about my relationships and i will always cherish that. i value our friendship above many many others, and i would never try to do anything to break that bond. it may not seem like it, but i do listen to you and everything you have said to me is all i have been thinking about all

[tinkerbellrox]

I am so glad you are happy with Tom. I'm NOT necessarily saying you two are going to break up anytime soon, just that you need to tread carefully if you carry so much emotional baggage. Tom and Dan are two different people, you care about Tom a heck of a lot more. That's what scares. Comparing the impact Dan made on you and the impact Tom could make is frightening. I just want you to step back and thick about what you want, how far do you want this whole thing to go AT THIS POINT, not in the future, and decide how much you can afford to care.

I love you, and I support you. I just don't want you to end up hurt.

[tiny_dancer54]

thank you for caring about me kayleigh. i know that i am an emotional person and i kno that i am taking a risk by caring so much but i love tom and i am willing to take that risk to make it work between us. i hope you can understand that.
<3 kara
xoxo